How would you casually ask out someone you just met out and about running errands?

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-10-25T18:17:35+00:00

YES.

It’s called day game. I do this all the time, like 3-4 times a week. Search “day game” in this sub you’ll find lots of info.

People think it’s a lot of works but when you actually do it, it only takes 5-15 minutes (unless it extends to insta dates which occasionally happens).

BraveProgram · 2024-10-25T17:55:20+00:00

By keeping it simple. Act at least somewhat confident so they can tell you're both serious and stating your intentions.
Then just say it and smile. Something like "I dont mean to be so blunt, but I think youre cute. Here's my number." Hand them youre number, never ask for theirs's unless it's on a dating app/online.
Not because it's rude or something, but because it's not really necessary. They could give you a fake one or give you the real one then block you later.

Again, keep it short, sweet, and get to the point. Then tell them "have a nice day" and walk away. If you never get a text, so what? Just do the same thing to someone else later. Act like none of it is a big deal, because it isn't.

Change it up however you want, but again, keep the vibes friendly/chill, be quick about it, be confident. People can feel your energy more than you think. So make sure it's good energy/vibes.

MindsetsForDating · 2024-10-25T19:29:22+00:00

You could have ended with, "You seem pretty cool. How about you put your number in my phone, and we grab a drink sometime?" As you say this, you hand her the phone. If she puts her number in your phone, you use texting to set up the date, not to get to know her. You want to do that in person. If she declines to put her number in, tell her it was nice meeting her and wish her a good day. I help guys with casual conversations all of the time. If you need help with anything else, don't hesitate to message me.

KoleSekor · 2024-10-25T22:27:16+00:00

Confidently introduce yourself. "I'm Kole by the way."

She'll say her name. "Hi, Kole, I'm Sarah."

Repeat her name, "Sarah, you're really cute and also seem really cool. Can I buy you a drink?"

"Right now?"

"Why not?"

"I have to take my groceries home,"

"Go drop them off at home and I'll grab us a table at [restaurant]"

Seems kind of simple, but I'm pretty sure this is how most of my spontaneous meets went.

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-26T10:35:31+00:00

It's natural to feel confused and anxious about things that you have never done before. These things may feel little awkward, but there is technically no reason for that, someone needs to take the risk and make the first step. "Actually, would you like to grab a coffee sometime?" Remember to look girl in the eyes and smile, to pass that clear intention and positive vibe. Don't make a big fuss about it, just simple yes/no question, let the girl react to it however she wants.

Memnon1 · 2024-10-26T13:41:29+00:00

Get printed on quality card stock your social business cards. These cards should have your full name and your social media contact info on them only. It will cost more but your name should be blind embossed not printed or engraved.

Next, practice your close until it's natural. The following has been my gold standard for years;

"This has been fascinating but I've got to be going. I would love to continue this at (Name of a well known restaurant or new hot dinning spot) sometime next week, but I don't date married women or women with one or more boyfriends" If she confirms she's unattached I say; "Splendid, here's my card"; hand your social business card to her and say "Good bye" or whatever close you feel comfortable with.

If she says she's married or has a boyfriend say; My congrats to him and act like your exiting, but then turn get one of your social business cards out handing it to her saying; "just in case things change in the near future..." Smile and walk away. Most women, no matter how married or in relationships love to flirt with the idea of cheating. I've even had women contact me months later explaining they were breaking up or had recently filed for divorce.

What is crucial is you end the interaction with definite invitations extended. Don't ask for her contact info and don't exchange cell phones. Women don't lose quality stationary especially if it resembles money with the quality of the engraving.

My succes rate on this approach is over 80% with getting contacted and meeting within two weeks at the longest and a couple of days at the shortest. I've even had referrals to single girlfriends (8% -10%) of my initial meets.

Title	How would you casually ask out someone you just met out and about running errands?
Author	Jcorb
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Comments	11
Date	October 25, 2024 5:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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