How to know if a girl is interested or just having normal convo?

KoleSekor · 2024-11-02T19:44:46+00:00

Stand close to them and if they're not backing away, that's a good sign. Body language like hips open to your, playing with hair, blushing, strong eye contact. With all that going well, you can touch them innocently/platonically on arm/shoulder and again, read how they react.

AcrossTheShimenawa · 2024-11-02T22:45:01+00:00

There is only one way to know, bro. Instead of looking for IOIs and all this reactive nonsense. Ask for compliance. If the girl likes you, she will comply. That's the only actual measure that counts.

Check it. Guys get upset that girls play games, twirl their hair, and flash their eyes, but then don't go out with them.

Know why? They're (the guys) not after an actual romantic connection. They're after validation. Women don't sleep with men who need their approval.

This mentality is all fine and good, it's a part of the development most of us go through, but you gotta ditch it. It's a boyish trait.

So after talking to the girl for awhile, see if she'll move with you to the dancefloor. See if she'll have a drink with you. See if she'll step outside with you to have a smoke. Say someone farted and ask her to move 5 steps to the left with you lol. Make something up. If she is receptive, she will comply.

If she isn't but is still talking to you, don't take it as a rejection. It may just mean she's not ready yet, so you can keep flirting and ask for compliance again in a few minutes.

Guys don't do this because rejection doesn't feel good. I get that. Newsflash: no matter how good you get, rejection will still be a factor. You know what's worse? Having your time wasted.

If you ask for compliance, it puts the power in your court. You can make the decision whether you want to continue talking to this chick or not.

All that to say this. Know what the male version of a shit test is? A compliance test.

Boosteddreamer · 2024-11-02T20:29:13+00:00

If your interested just flirt. Some won’t show any interest even when they are, and others will flirt just for fun. There’s no real way to tell other then trying to move things forward.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-11-02T20:28:12+00:00

The look. Girls have a look when they are interested which isn't hard to spot.

Sandvicheater · 2024-11-03T04:17:16+00:00

There's one school of thought that all PUA, regular dating coaches, life coach, etc agree upon that's kino escalation get some way to touch her physically (dance, palm reading, etc) and judge her reaction.

fer6600 · 2024-11-03T10:38:37+00:00

If a girl starts talking to you in a bar (or anywhere really)she's beyond interested in you, girls don't usually do this so just ALWAYS assume she's interested.

TakeAChillPill99 · 2024-11-03T14:12:04+00:00

Sometimes if I’m not sure I’ll just ask “so are we getting along more like friends or more likeeeeee”

Radicalmattitude1 · 2024-11-03T20:35:12+00:00

Assume that girls are into you until proven otherwise.

It’s her job to reject you, don’t reject yourself.

Obviously, if she’s visibly uncomfortable then tone it back. But if you’re shy then your problem is not being forward enough. You have to turn it up a few notches to find where the limit is.

Also, yes other men will judge you. It comes with the territory. They are jealous that you have the balls to talk to the cuties and they don’t. Ignore them.

Title	How to know if a girl is interested or just having normal convo?
Author	Worth-Childhood9180
Upvotes	15
Comments	15
Date	November 2, 2024 7:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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