One of the reasons I think a lot of girls egos are off the roof is because dudes are flooding their inboxes with the most ridiculous stuff. I was with a lady a few nights ago and she showed me a lot of messages guys send on various dating platforms. One sent her 8 messages straight then when she didn't reply sent a full page of him talking about cooking steak as a sexual innuendo.... If you want more online success keep the messages short, friendly, simple and light-hearted, regardless of what she says(unless it's just straight up disrespectful).