I remember posting about something similar many months ago from a different situation. The comments were mixed with people saying that I am a bad friend and some people were saying that I am not wrong if she chose me and I went along with it.

So last night was another situation. We entered a bar and saw two girls at a table drinking with each other. We decided to run 2's and open the table. We didn't pre-choose which girls we wanted to focus on beforehand and we sort of just went with the flow.

During our introductions, I immediately started seeing signs that this girl might be interested in me. She was touchy and trying to hold my hands. Eitherway we sit down with them but that girl was sitting facing infront of my friend so I just saw it as he will go after her which is fine.

During 20 minutes of chatting, I noticed she seemed really into him (or so I thought?) because she was just so focused on everything he was saying, laughing, playing with her hair, everything.

Actually, during this time I felt pretty invisible LOL. I would try to say something and she was just so focused on him. I legit had -1000 Aura. He was talking a lot and making jokes so both girls were fixated on it. I couldn't go for the other girl because she had a boyfriend so I didn't bother doing anything with her.

I told my friend that the girl hes facing must definitly like him so he tried to pursue it and I said I will try to help.

We all leave the bar and while we were walking, that girl suddenly started focusing on me and just kept holding my arms while walking, touching me and holding my hands. I tried to cancel it out by shifting the focus to my friend and they were talking again but she would never do the things she was doing to me even though I wasn't even doing anything or even spoke to her much.

She kept coming back to walk with me and just paid him no attention like how she was in the bar. We go to another bar together and it's a similar situation but she's just focused on me. I had a chat with him and we sort of re-established that he wanted to go for her. I said I understand and I am literally doing nothing but she keeps going for me. He then tries again to get her attention and they talk and we leave the bar and go to the club.

At the club, it didn't get any better even though he was trying to isolate her with him. He would ask her to come and then she would just ignore and stand beside me. I tried moving away in order to make sure it's the two of them once again but nothing was happening.

So at this point he pretty much gave up and since she was already showing so much interest in me (the one who didn't even talk to her) I decided to just pursue it.

We danced, etc and eventually made out. It was a fun night.

So once again, I don't see this as a fault of my own. I tried in every location to make sure they were both isolated but it just didn't work. She was just more attracted to me even though I didn't think that was the case at the first bar.