What are some simple little things that I can practice to improve talking to women and approaching?

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-12-03T19:29:32+00:00

Push your comfort zone. Do things that seem a little risky, but you know will move you forward. What do you think that would be for you?

If you get a chance, try approaching and starting conversations with no opener in mind. Practice being unfiltered and say whatever pops in your head. Of course, Use common sense, don’t insult anyone. But don’t worry about saying the wrong thing either. You have to risk saying the wrong thing and realize it’s no big deal and you can handle it.

Do it with a fun vibe that starts a conversation that isn’t serious. It’s more fun than serious.

And if you start to self judge after an approach, which is likely to happen, practice adapting a mindset where it’s all positive. Learn to laugh at it.

If not that, then pick something else. Just try not to do simple things that start boring conversations that you are comfortable with. You’re not growing or improving if you do that.

Try making approaching a fun game that isn’t serious at all. It’s fun.

liftingnstuff · 2024-12-03T19:57:00+00:00

The point of approaching is not to get a number. The point is to have fun and connect with a person. Once you connect with a person, getting a number is trivial because you both agree that you like each other enough to spend time together again.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2024-12-03T20:04:20+00:00

Approach women you are not interested in. That makes it much easier because you will have no fear to get rejected. That should help you get loose and in a good mood to comfortably approach others that you do like.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-12-03T20:02:14+00:00

A good thing to practice is going for the close in the opener.

Opener = Starting the convo
Close = Getting her to give you an instant date or contact info

So here's how you can practice this: You go up to a girl and say "hey, want to go on an instant date?" Is this an amazing approach? No. But some women will say yes.

The good thing about practicing this is that you get used to the two hardest things: Opening and closing. And once you're used to that, then it's much easier to add material in the middle to build some rapport and connection before you close. But the closing will be automatic at that point.

You don't have to be confident. You can do the first approaches while being shit scared. You just gotta do it in the beginning. Push yourself. Muster up the courage

cemj86 · 2024-12-03T23:49:20+00:00

Talk to everyone!

Everywhere you go, introduce yourself to anyone and everyone, genuinely asking about their day.

KoleSekor · 2024-12-03T21:09:51+00:00

Approach women without even wanting their numbers. Just approach them because you like their vibes. Tell them you like their vibes and try to vibe with them for as long as you can. That might mean you vibe all the way into the bedroom!

What I'm saying is if you successfully vibe, exchanging socials or a number should just feel really natural.

Borinquense · 2024-12-04T02:20:29+00:00

Master the art of conversation first. With anyone. In general. I’ve noticed in life the men I know who are most successful can chop it up with about anyone. It’s about being interesting and fun.

Then treat any woman you like , just like anyone else. Have a good time. Pursue those who have a similar personality to yours.

Informal_Sherbert251 · 2024-12-03T23:37:49+00:00

Attempt to talk to everyone. Treat everyone equally, understand the difference between talking to communicate and communicating to understand someone. Practicing these skills will boost confidence to just open in conversation with anyone you want too. But also practice saying no to people you don’t wanna talk to. It’s equally important to be able to shut down a conversation especially once you see a red flag.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-12-04T22:58:38+00:00

Practice having normal conversations with women first.

Solid-Frame-6860 · 2024-12-05T02:23:32+00:00

Yeah talk to everyone. Be social with guys, as you're likely to have more in common, unless you're a beta. Do not talk about sport and other typical male topics, however. Ask probing questions about their estimate of the male / female ratio in the venue [you're at if applicable]. That's my favorite, no guy has EVER resisted that question, no matter how cool they're trying to be. When you observe a target, group, etc., and something positive or non-offensively funny comes to mind, say it out loud to them. Humor is a favorite, but saying something profoundly positive and deep, also works.

Millionaire2025_ · 2024-12-05T13:58:49+00:00

Things you can practice to improve talking to women and approaching?

Have you tried talking to women and approaching?

Title	What are some simple little things that I can practice to improve talking to women and approaching?
Author	DreamShort3109
Upvotes	31
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Date	December 3, 2024 7:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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