So my stbxw ran off this summer. Standard lies about being abused. Originally it was emotional abuse because I do “nothing around the house”, which escalated over the next couple months to every other kind of abuse accusations when nothing was working and she lost custody of our kids.

From day 1 of her leaving, she contacted my chain of command and demanded a no-contact order. I’m still paying for her new phone and phone bill. I bought her a new phone right before she left. She has 2 other burner phones now and doesn’t use the one on my account. I’m also still paying for her car insurance. I really want to get my name off her insurance and make her cover it herself. It’s been 5 months since she left and I’m still paying these things. I can’t have any discussion with her either due to the military’s stupid policies. I assume it will look bad on me at the next court hearing (final custody hearing) if I cancel her insurance. Both of our names are on the title. I paid off the car. Both of our names are on the insurance. Is there any way I can stop paying for her stuff?