(If it applies)…. Realize that you’re dealing with someone that is willing to take your toddlers or baby around other strangers to satisfy their own needs. Strangers that will NEVER look after or feel for your kids the same way you would.

Once that sinks in you should be able to see exactly who or what you’re dealing with.

Makes my stomach turn to see people taking their toddlers around other people, especially for the sake of sexual gratification.

Dated a girl once, very briefly, that had a toddler and she gave her to me to hold once and till this day I cannot shake how odd and sad I felt at the same time, I kept saying in my head this little girl needs her father, I am not her father, this feels superficial.

Her words were: “see your new daddy”. I never looked at her the same again. Ended that relationship a week later.