I have been the most devoted and loving gf for the longest time. I believe in a relationship working out if both people put in the effort and want it to work. But more recently I am learning that my bf is slowly but surely not prioritising our r/s and basically having me do all the work. I have been suspecting for months now that his intention or change in behaviour is to make me leave him myself without him having to be the bad guy. I don’t want to go into the long story but there is a chance that he might leave the country and we may have to navigate the possibility of a Long distance relationship. While nothing is confirmed , he is acting like he is already leaving . I( learning the language, selling his stuff). There is no discussion about what will happen to us. If I raise it , he goes ballistic and says nothing is confirmed. I guess he is expecting for me to just accept whatever arrangement comes my way. I have expressed that I am unlikely to want to proceed with a LDR. He went from feeling rather melancholic and reluctant about his decision to leave to basically acting like he is gone. I do love him so I don’t want to break up with him but I am getting frustrated with his behaviour where he seems to mentally have checked out of our r/s. I don’t intend to cheat but it crossed my mind to start to monkey branch so that when he leaves I would be able to leave the r/s with more ease. Does this seem wrong to do or is he already mentally broken up with me so it doesn’t matter?