i want to make my man happy. need advice on better ways.

grahamcookiefart · 2025-01-10T18:12:18+00:00

What kinda guy is he? Really depends. If he's not a romantic kinda person, then just try be useful for him. Learn some better recipes, if he works out count the macros of your meals. Give him a back or foot rub.. spoil him a bit 😃 If he's not the "tell me how much you adore me" type then he'd probably appreciate gestures more.

Specific_Praline_362 · 2025-01-10T22:33:01+00:00

I think you need to make sure you have a few close friendships so you will have someone you can lean on emotionally. I specifically mean women friends. If your man isn't really meeting your needs emotionally, I think male friendships could tread into dangerous territory, even if you enter into it with the purest of intentions. But with women friends, you'll have people you can chat with about your day, how you're feeling, etc. I do not mean you should bash your husband to them, though -- that is an exhausting mental load for your friends and can be damaging to your relationship. I just mean, if your husband isn't the type who wants to hear about it when you had a bad day at work or are feeling a little down, having friends for support will help meet your emotional needs and will also give you an alternative to "bothering" your husband.

Aside from that, doing nice things for him like cooking his favorite food, doing his laundry, etc.

FlouncyMcTwinkle · 2025-01-13T10:24:43+00:00

Reading through the comments, your man sounds like a proper pain the a*s. Does he like anything? Its not your job to make anyone happy, we are all responsible for our own joy. What does he like about you? Be that, do that. Curious to hear what the relationship brings you.

theodorelogan0735 · 2025-01-10T19:05:42+00:00

You say you want to "keep your emotions in check". If you are saying that because you are out of control, then yes, by all means.

But we don't expect our women to be stone faced stoics. I love to see my wife's emotions (even the negative ones when she needs them).

How to make him happy? Big picture: make his life easier and more enjoyable. How? You probably know 20 things you can do to make his day a little smoother or more enjoyable. It could be as simple as making him coffee or wearing a dress he likes. All the little things my wife does for me makes me feel appreciated and loved.

We can't advise you specifically about your husband, you know him better than we do. Just ask. "what can I do for him right now to help?" You probably already know the answer. If you don't, just ask him "Honey, what can I do for you right now to make your day a little better?" He'll appreciate your asking.

Substantial-Pool4936 · 2025-02-20T13:01:43+00:00

My wife has never even had a thought like this, haha.

EidolonMan · 2025-01-10T19:00:01+00:00

Sweet type meaningggg?

AdministrationOk4542 · 2025-04-10T18:12:58+00:00

I think it would be helpful for you both to have an open and non-judgmental conversation to ensure we're both meeting each other's emotional needs.

Something like, "For me, I know that you love me but I would really benefit from more words of affirmation just so that I can be certain that we're on the same page. I'd also love to hear what you need from me in our relationship."

A lot of these comments are encouraging you to just dive into what he's interested in and assume he'll value that. However there is a strong benefit to having a healthy conversation.

Best_Comparison7819 · 2025-11-29T02:29:34+00:00

Here is a formula.

Look hot. Keep yourself in shape and wear sexy clothing/underwear for him.
Give your body to him sexually (but not anything that will make you feel disrespected).
Respect him. Make him feel big and in charge.
Don't create drama for him. A woman should be a place of peace for a man.

Jcrystal82 · 2025-01-10T20:34:53+00:00

Maybe you both can explore the red pill tenants again. He with a male audience and you with a female audience just as you did with this post. If anything, it will help you better understand the concepts and if your partner is “very red pill” as you describe.

Title	i want to make my man happy. need advice on better ways.
Author	Babylette710
Upvotes	7
Comments	29
Date	January 10, 2025 6:01 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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