Hello, I wrote a long context specific paragraph but I feel it is not needed.

I have a great boyfriend who is trying his best to provide us with a better future, he is taking on a lot. I feel like through nagging and making fun of him for various resentments I’ve made him recluse deeper and deeper into video games, escapism, etc. I think it’s also partially because we are having a rough time financially as well and his family keeps adding stresses onto him that he is behaving this way. Our intimacy is non-existent. He is becoming more and more resentful of me as well. Does anyone have any resources on this?

I see a lot of advice about being a goddess of light and a soft place to land but not sure how to actually do this.