29 years old and have made some progress with the dating scene over the past decade but not much to brag about.

Since day 1 I’ve always preferred women who are comfortable with open relationships due to simply having kinks and whilst desiring a romantic relationship, still wanting that freedom to form legit fwbs (actual friendships with fun) if they come naturally.

I’ve seen tons of relationships though where there are these really cute girls with somewhat decent-looking guys who aren’t very socially active, usually somewhat serious at social functions, and act all standoffish at liberal values and clearly would not know how to navigate the dating and kink spaces…….yet they have these hella cute girls as their partners.

Is the fact that they are strongly conservative and uphold such monogamist ideals with a firm hand something that some women will find attractive and pick a guy for, regardless of the guy’s looks or lack of pleasant social skills?