How to practice conversations and communication?

KoleSekor · 2025-03-31T21:51:54+00:00

First piece of advice would be to talk to everyone. Old. Young. Men. Women. Have more conversations with any kind of human being....

And this might be controversial - but practice talk to women while they're working. Talk to the bored girl working at the front desk. Talk to your dental hygienist. Talk to your waitress and Starbucks worker.

Don't interrupt them from their job. Don't be disrespectful or come on too strongly. Just try to have a conversation with them for practice. They'll likely welcome a conversation on the clock.

AdministrativeLove97 · 2025-03-31T21:16:51+00:00

Either just go approach ppl just for conversations… Another idea, People would say otherwise, go to the strip club…. Go talk to the women. Avoid private dances tho,

liftingnstuff · 2025-03-31T22:36:33+00:00

Go out into the world and have low stakes conversations. Old school diners and quiet bars are places where it's part of the staff's job to converse with you. Ask random strangers on the street for recommendations. You don't have to be attracted to the person, it doesn't even have to be a woman. Compliment strangers' outfits. Super low stakes just for practice, then as you get more comfortable, up the stakes slightly.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-01T01:53:54+00:00

You just have too many filters in your own mind. It's a kind of self censorship and being afriaid of what others will think of you and aware of how you might be perceived +how you come off. To fix this is just to stop worrying so much about what others think of you and reduce your amount of peoples pleasing tendencies.

See my post on flirting and verbal techniques to learn concrete principles and outer game techniques on verbal skills. That will help you out a lot so long as you practice them.

Captain_w00t · 2025-04-01T02:21:27+00:00

Talk to everyone, literally everyone.

Be genuinely interested in listening to them. Ask questions, add some comment. Just plain conversation.

The more they talk about themselves, the more they will be engaged.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-04-01T03:17:33+00:00

Agree to talk to anyone and everyone. That's actually great advice. Be genuine and a good listener. Don't have stories pre-planned or do old PUA routines. Be a curious person. If you can tell someone is passionate about something, simply say "tell me more about that." People love to share their favorite interests with others. Contribute your own experiences as well. Keep it flowing with back and forth; don't hog the conversation as people can get overwhelmed and bored easily when people talk in long monologues. Try to keep it open ended so there won't be yes/no type dead ends. But you shouldn't have to think too hard about it. Stay present in the moment.

Title	How to practice conversations and communication?
Author	LogicalChart3205
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Comments	9
Date	March 31, 2025 9:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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