20 min interaction but no text back!

Vibejuice-official · 2025-04-30T06:54:06+00:00

A huge mistake you’re making is not generating enough attraction. But without being able to witness it irl it’s tough to decipher what you’re doing wrong.

First thing I noticed tho is that you should stop pouring on the compliments, less is more. Women are intuitive, they know that if you’re stopping them to talk to them then you’re probably already attracted to them.

Find a different reason to start the conversation other than “duh ur pretty” your opener should be literally anything else.

Sure, you might be having an extended interaction but are you doing/saying things that will grab her interest and make an impression? Are you teasing her? Are you being fun? Are you making eye contact? What is your body language communicating?

Don’t feel too overwhelmed, these are more subconscious things that are fine tuned over time with practice, the real focus is the conversation at hand.

Once you’ve gotten the above sorted and you can feel her being attracted to you, and she’s giving you lots of IOIs (indicators of interest, like playing with her hair/ nervous fidgeting, giggling at your jokes even if they suck) you can just skip the number close and go right for the instant hang out.

Frame it like this: “hey I’m about to go get some coffee, wanna join me?” That way it doesn’t seem like an instant date, it seems more like you’re already on the way to do something and she just happened to come along.

cassidy-sinatra · 2025-04-30T07:19:24+00:00

First step is the hardest so congrats trail and error and you will need more volume it’s numbers game aim for 10 numbers or more

epimpstyle · 2025-04-30T10:05:09+00:00

was super hard for me to open this way and get rejected in front of people, but I'm doing jt

If you are doing it, I assume that you actually enjoy hearing her reject you. What do you do to minimise the chances of a rejection? I guess nothing. Right?

I didn't plan for getting numbers

If this is not your plan, why are you surprised of not getting a reply? Without explicitly saying they can read your attitude of "I don't care, I'm here to talk to you" - it is OK? Having no plan when talking to someone is a killer! It is like playing basketball without having a strategy, you end up running all over the place. Once you have a plan, you move things toward it, you don't start a conversation and hope that everything will be fine, with a plan you make your own luck.

Trying to bring different emotions, state I find her attractive or she look nice more than once in the interaction

What were you even talking about, mate? Are you trying to play psychologist and trigger a bunch of different emotions or something? Also, there’s no need to mention that you find her attractive more than twice, she hears you, she understands. This should be done subtly, not by explicitly telling her over and over like you assume she doesn’t get it.

Slow_Ad9049 · 2025-04-30T06:29:51+00:00

I want to know do you call numbers like this (or text again)after they don't respond before deleting or directly deleting these numbers?

Grigthefirst · 2025-04-30T19:26:36+00:00

Hey! They're probably a lot of things you can improve and I don't know much, but here's a small suggestion : try discussing future meeting in person during approach. The more concrete - the better, just suggest coffee together and decide on time, then ask for the number. Less numbers closes probably, but also less futile expectations, and some solid numbers as result

Flat-Zombie-95 · 2025-04-30T22:14:42+00:00

It’s really hard to build rapport in the beginning. Most will flake. Don’t take it personal, they just don’t care about you yet. Like 7/10 will end like this believe it or not. You’re not doing anything wrong but try to be more bold, light humor and a little arrogant when building rapport. Text game isn’t a real thing, only use text to plan dates etc

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-05-02T02:34:45+00:00

your opener basically tells the women; hey how about some dick? ; only hit on them when you know she is attracted; your openers should be spontaneous, sincere; fun, and genuine. do with that as you will lol

Title	20 min interaction but no text back!
Author	Slow_Ad9049
Upvotes	2
Comments	29
Date	April 30, 2025 6:15 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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