Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help needed

Fartosack · 2025-05-09T15:17:46+00:00

Hey bro, cold approach is definitely one of many tools to use. Work on your self esteem/confidence is important too. Looking at your profile, you're an average Indian man definitely not 2/10 in your are of the world.

js-scp · 2025-05-09T15:22:27+00:00

BROTHER YOU ARE NOT 2/10, first thing I want you to do is understand that whilst you may not be 10/10 you cannot be this hard on yourself 2/10 is crazy self criticism

BrunoAnm2 · 2025-05-09T15:20:18+00:00

You're definitely not a 2/10, my friend. Just keep it going, but try to drop off the beer once you start getting results. You should not need alcohol to be confident.

ubergoon1912 · 2025-05-09T16:13:28+00:00

Lmao you’re tweeking bro, no homo but you’re definitely not no damn 2/10. Honestly, groom yourself well & you’ll definitely be average to slightly above average man.

But it all starts with mindset.

Greybluesweater · 2025-05-09T15:27:57+00:00

You’re not a 2. Get decent expensive trendy clothes, a haircut and some muscle. You’ll easily become an 8.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-09T17:34:44+00:00

You're someone's 10 out there. Develop your inner game, drop the alcohol, and keep trying. You'll find someone.

water_reducer · 2025-05-09T16:15:35+00:00

alcohol isn't great, it lowers approach anxiety sure but it also converts testosterone into estrogen. not really what you want.

classically in pack formations with hierarchies (in species like monkeys) there are basically 3 or 4 tiers of males. there's the infamous alpha male who gets most of the action, the lesser but still top ranked males, the average males and then the bottom males.

the alpha and top ranked males exhibit lower characteristics of anxiety, the average males are the most risk averse, and the absolute lowest ranking males are the most desperate and tryhard among the pack. the lowest males go out of their away to try to mimic the behavior of the top ranked males with displays of fearlessness and low inhibition. it occasionally works for mating, but very rarely and only exists as their method for trying because they are so completely desperate to get out of the cellar that mimicking the behaviors of the top ranked males without actually being a top ranked male is all that they can do.

if you find that you are normally an anxious and risk averse person, then you're basically at the normal or average ranked male status. if alcohol pushes you into more of a state of lowered anxiety and inhibition then it is pushing you into the lowered ranked, and more desperate place. not all drugs do this, but alcohol 100% does. some recreational drugs actually have the opposite chemical effect but drinking is not one of them.

imo it's better to focus on health and wellness, the natural kind not the shit you get in a bottle or inject into your ass. most of this stuff is physiological, everything else is a cope.

BritishBatman · 2025-05-10T00:32:54+00:00

No chance you’re a 2/10 fella. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Genuinely if you dress well and are in good shape you’re well above average.

I think the fact you think you’re a 2/10 is actually a big reason you’re not having any success.

Obviously it’s hard to build confidence, usually it comes with positive experiences. But you’re gonna have to do it the other way around, most guys have to.

chriscrowder · 2025-05-09T16:16:35+00:00

I just looked at your pic; you're selling yourself short saying 2/10!

As far as alcohol, I'm long out of the game, but used to drink before approaching, as it's a social lubricant. As long as you can handle your alcohol, I say it's a good tool. But being obviously inebriated is detrimental.

Chicagoj1563 · 2025-05-09T16:25:51+00:00

One beer isn’t likely to make much of a difference, unless it’s a huge beer like a pint.

And don’t depend on alcohol. It’s a crutch and you will need it every time you want to approach.

The Better thing is learn how to remove the outcome, stop caring so much about what happens, stop thinking so much, and do it naturally. Get the same mindset without the alcohol.

CharmingRejector · 2025-05-09T19:59:41+00:00

Your biggest problem isn't your looks. It's your energy and vibe. You look fine and you have a good style. But you look depressed man. You look out of energy. Or low energy.

Meditate. Visualize (naked chicks). You are enough. Find that part of you where everything amuses you. Women amuse you, and enthuse you. You are the shit. They want you to approach. So go over and say hi. You will know within 2 seconds if she likes you, sometimes even before you speak to her. Your animal vibes don't lie. Her energy connects with yours.

Tell us how it went!

BigKushi · 2025-05-09T21:25:25+00:00

Then, drink two beers and get rejected by 8/10 and 12/10 girls, or just stop drinking and be real and authentic while trying to connect with girls and unapologetically be yourself. Embrace the "fuck it" mentality

trev581 · 2025-05-10T08:30:16+00:00

get a fade, shape your eyebrows, keep your beard clean.

wear fitted clothes whenever in public

stand up straight, talk slow, have your drunk confidence when sober

you’re not a 2/10 stop thinking in terms of 10s

Tight-Arms · 2025-05-10T18:59:42+00:00

Any luck? And are you doing it in delhi?

aguywhosing · 2025-05-11T05:35:40+00:00

Bro you did amazing work but you called you 2 is very disrespecting yourself, don't do that, by the way, where did you approach those girls ??? In Delhi

Title	Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help needed
Author	wolfme1997
Upvotes	29
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Date	May 9, 2025 3:06 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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