Someone made a thread earlier about when the friend pulls the girl away.
Speaking about when your talking to a girl and her friend pulls her away. I know a lot of you guys are going to hate me for speaking the truth.
The reality is if your approaching girls and her friend pulls her away whether attractive or unattractive, they ARE sending signs to each other.
She's not interested in you. She was being nice to you. She's playing the part so well in making you believe that she wants you. Maybe in 5% of chances, a friend is jealous but that's rare.
IF a girl wants you; SHE will literally ditch her friends to be with you. There is nothing her friend can do to stop her if she wants to stay with you when she likes you. Accept the reality. I go out solo almost every time I go out. I approach groups of 2, 3, 4, it doesn't matter. I end up making out with one friend while her friend is beside her. Do well, and you'll win.
How do I know?
I gurantee i'm the most documented person on this subreddit. I've been documenting my night outs here for the last 3 years. Every single crazy thing and experience that happened. I know all the social cues, pickup methods, rejections, successes. I didn't just go out once every month or every week. I went out almost every day in different countries (including my own). I learned, I studied, I practiced. 95% of the time solo.
Last in-field experience with my friend who told me "Everytime things are going well with a girl, her friends always pulls her away.".
This happened this past Saturday. I've been out with this friend on about 5 occasions and he's right. I see him approach, things look good and her friend (not ugly) pulls her away even though it looked like they were both vibing.
We were at the club, I let him approach 3 different sets. The same situation happened each time. You know what I noticed? I noticed the friend who wasn't being interacted with STARE at her friend WAITING for the SIGNAL. As soon as she got it, which was a certain look; she pulled her away and they moved to a different area. A different weekend, same shit happens. He's talking to one friend, im talking to the other. The one im talking to likes me and asks for my number and says she has to go because her friend is telling her she wants to leave (without saying it).
These girls death stare at their friends to make sure they want to keep talking to the other guy.
They always do this. Girls do have codes. They even tell me. The next time you approach a girl and her friend and your doing well/after making out; ask her yourself about it. They wait for their friend to give them the signal that they are uncomfortable and they move.
It's a rare occurence for it to happen to me. I approach and I engage correctly. I'm not here to brag in this post. I just want to let you know that you can keep believing that they are lying to make yourself feel better but if this constantly happens to you; its because she's not interested.
The sooner guys accept reality and look to fix why they are doing that, then you'll do better infield. I was away from this forum for 3 months and it's just so funny seeing people who don't have the creds giving advice to newbies looking to learn.
Here's some also actual quick facts for you:
- The specific pickup line you use doesn't matter. You can say something completely stupid and still pull.
- Everyone gets rejected
- You can get physical with a girl within the first 60 seconds as long as your her type and you've proved your wittiness. Don't touch her ass if you haven't realized whether she likes you or not. Afterwards though, you are golden.
- It's possible to make out with multiple girls in a night at the same bar if your really that good.
- There is nothing wrong with asking for a kiss. The girl I made out with 2 nights ago actually asked me to kiss her.
- Girls will approach you. They do approach guys. It's not a fictional tale. Even if not common, If you haven't had it happen to you. You need to step up your game.
- Your performance in bed matters and if your shit, they will not mess with you again. Messages will become delayed, unresponsive, etc. Doesn't matter if your attractive. Size matters but it's not the end all. More important is how you perform. So if she goes cold after sex, maybe you need to work on it more.
- You don't need to be inside a bar early to pull a girl home. You can pull her on the street right after the bar/club closes as long as you approach them and play your cards right.
- If you have no success in pickup in your home country, you may find success in others but the reality is if your doing good here; it translates there. If your doing bad here, you'll probably do bad there. Fortunately for you, desperate foreign girls exist.
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Hate me or Love me. I know i'm going to trigger sensitive people but I'm speaking the truth. Now keep learning how to improve your self in every way along with your pickup game. Game is important. Those who master the way of flirting and socializing always come out ahead.
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