We’re Losing Our Men And No One Wants To Talk About Why | Rachael Sloan--for men going through divorce

danielm316 · 2025-05-08T21:40:22+00:00

I feel MGTOW grows more very day, young men now don’t want to get married.

Septic-Abortion-Ward · 2025-05-08T19:37:54+00:00

The real blackpill is reality.

Just wave after wave of my friends going through divorce made me nervous to get married. I finally committed, we struggled and I helped her get through the hard part of life and establishing her career; and the split second she thought she could make it on her own she filed.

Most of the guys I know have similar stories of paying for everything, carrying the relationship, doing the chores, cleaning, cooking, earning, tolerating endless drama, open abuse, the cheating and for what? You lose everything. There was no pay off.

There are now several generations of women that are taught and reinforced on a daily basis through social media, it isn't their job to lift a single finger in their marriage.

You never get it back. Marriage for men might as well be slavery.

rabel111 · 2025-05-09T00:39:07+00:00

Sounds very reasonable, but then it becomes clear, that this woman believes its Men's fault they are divorsed. I don't care how nicely she phrases it or how much she stresses that it was the way society made them be men. She still lays no blame on women, and only offers men the opportunity to be better men.

Just another woman femsplaining masculinity to men!

BbyJ39 · 2025-05-08T17:39:01+00:00

Got divorced almost four years ago. I’m still not back on my feet. They say some men never recover from it. I don’t want to be one of them but it’s been a non stop struggle. I’m doing weekly group therapy and 1v1 sessions now hoping it will help. I’m a decent guy and was a good husband yet lost all confidence and lost everything I had which was the classic American dream of career, wife, house, just no kids tho I wanted them.

tmattm · 2025-05-09T04:35:13+00:00

She might phrase it in a very nice and understanding tone but it’s still the same old feminist “masculinity is the problem because men don’t talk about their feelings”

walterwallcarpet · 2025-05-09T05:13:28+00:00

If you don't play the game, you can't lose.

Women's lives will be shit when we're not their fucking financiers.

aerial_coitus · 2025-05-08T19:04:20+00:00

this is the result women and feminism wanted

Gen_X_Xoomer · 2025-05-09T02:18:26+00:00

We are set up to fail in divorce.

EmptyImagination4 · 2025-05-09T08:35:06+00:00

This is very interesting. I also was taught from a young age to be strong. I was taught if my mother is sad I have to be there for her, "fixing" her and that if I don't I would be the problem, the cause of her pain.
This lead to me trying to "fix" the world. Because this, apparently was what I was taught I need to do in order to be accepted and loved. Maybe it's time for me to stop that game and exit the battlefield.

Complicated_Animal · 2025-05-09T05:23:36+00:00

I think she's trying to get there, but the bottom line is that she thinks men should process their emotions the same way women do. That just isn't going to work. You can't "fix" masculinity by taking away the masculinity, dumbass! The solution is not to to fix the men. The solution is to fix the women and the culture, instead of blaming men for everything you can't or don't want to deal with! STFU.

everybodyluvzwaymond · 2025-05-09T06:52:07+00:00

I watched the video and have mixed feelings. It seems once again women’s emotional centrality is the measuring stick for relationships, now it’s just going the other way. Now men must be more emotionally attuned for the relationship to suit their sensibilities and not upset them. Where is women’s responsibility in understanding men from where they are coming from? What are women’s obligations?

One_Adeptness_7610 · 2025-05-08T23:12:25+00:00

I'm Canadian. I live in BC. I appreciate the link

ducaati · 2025-05-09T10:26:55+00:00

Hahaha, good luck turning that ship around, lady. I punched out a few years ago and will NOT be coming back, neither to the game, nor to this world either once I get that part figured out.

SaltyDawg1966 · 2025-05-10T01:05:32+00:00

When a man begins talking about his FEELINGS to his woman, that conversation will quickly morph into how his feelings are making her FEEL. And then, in short order, the conversation will be about her feelings.

Mountain_Silver100 · 2025-05-09T19:52:54+00:00

This started very good but went horribly down the way, something around the middle of the video. The last part was literally trying to push a free course to "train men" to communicate better and become better (not being so tough and opening up, etc.). The psyop is so fruitful that it creates new business opportunities for women. Yay!

"And it's often coming from other men"

Not in my case. I was metaphorically left out in the cold, told not to trust people, be tough etc., by my mother. And I became the stone even she couldn't ever imagine. Then all I started to hear became "how I became a cold and cynical person" etc. (oh they like how I am productive for their benefit though.) If I were a feminist, I could have the right to put some random psychological diagnosis here (manipulations, gaslit, 360 tornado kick), but I won't. It was just harming a kid, that's all I know.

Anyway, so much crying for someone supposedly cold, I guess. :D
Oh BTW, this "maybe your next marriage" thing probably won't work anymore. I don't believe there has ever been a more feminist time on Earth than now, one that also pushed men into the void more than ever before. This many obvious lies will inevitably create a reaction. Even if it's just men going dark and being alone rather than accepting the fabricated fake reality.

Smeg-life · 2025-05-08T20:07:54+00:00

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Title	We’re Losing Our Men And No One Wants To Talk About Why \| Rachael Sloan--for men going through divorce
Author	antifeminist3
Upvotes	191
Comments	36
Date	May 8, 2025 5:10 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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