Getting over the ex....

warrior_up · 2025-05-31T14:23:58+00:00

Haaa, dude grab some popcorn. Abortions….random sex, mine is on her 7th boyfriend - violent toothless felon I had to get a protective order on so he’s not allowed to be near my kids.

Make sure you’re doing background checks. She’s frantic to replace you so she can show the world that she is not the bad one, still desirable.

That shit comes to an epic end, their left after being used, no man takes them seriously. It’s quite sad actually

By then you’ll have a younger, better looking girl and that’s when they really start getting crazy

Longjumping-Method56 · 2025-05-30T05:06:37+00:00

If you do go through a divorce make sure that the house is sold this is important because she will try to keep the house and its value will go up and even if it doesn't go up the fact that she won't be paying rent will make her life a hell of a lot easier so make sure that the house is sold and don't take any deals its better for your health if she has to pay rent as well as you just force the sale of the house and watch her live fall apart quickly and take your half of the sales if you disagree with me then picture this

She will have to pay monthly bills, which we all know are expensive and it will take less than a year for her to fail

Vs

Her keeping the house and using sex for an income to cover her utilities or using you for alimony to pay her utilities and living in relatively stress free live

If she is going to put you through hell make sure that you take away her foundation and wait for her to join you there 😏

Historical_Eye3756 · 2025-05-25T18:01:25+00:00

Yikes! You still care for her which is normal…. Your life will get better once you are over her. I was in your position…. Put yourself first and don’t look back.

Bluetoes1 · 2025-05-25T08:52:55+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through all of this. I know from experience how difficult this is. I know you want to scream to the world about every little thing she has done. Sadly, it is useless.

Nobody really cares about how vile of a person she is. Nobody gives a shit she is getting an abortion due to a seedy affair. Nobody could care less that she is a lowlife skank that wasted your time and your life as you worked your ass off and did everything you thought you could to make her happy.

But you know what? You are a good dude. You did what you could and you did your best. Sadly, you were with the wrong person. You found a horrible person who exploited who you were to get what she could from you. And that sucks.

But you need to understand that’s over now. She has shown you who she is, and that she is not good enough for you or your family..

Telling people will only make you look petty. Nothing will come from It in terms of getting some form of fairness or justice. You need to put it behind you. An incredibly difficult thing to do, but necessary. If you make yourself the better person by being above this and moving forward, you will find your peace.

Reflog1791 · 2025-05-25T06:21:17+00:00

Ah yes you just reminded me of the $500 planned parenthood charge on our “joint” account.

Just give it time it won’t always sting. Now I laugh about what a selfish thot she was. Just shake my head at myself for ever giving a shit about common gutter thot.

Don’t take it personally brother it is what it is. We got scammed by traitors. Has happened to better men than you or me. Some poor guy is finding out he’s in the same boat tonight.

It sucks when you’re in it, the trick is to make your new life 1000x better than your old life. Happened for me and millions of other divorced men.

ronjthrowaway · 2025-05-25T02:11:35+00:00

if you don't share children, you're very lucky.
you have the rare opportunity to truly move on with your life. don't let her drag your life down.

progress and onwards

Patient-Program224 · 2025-05-25T01:27:40+00:00

Like everyone else said time and therapy. There’s a misconception that going to therapy makes you weak but in reality it helps make you stronger. That’s what I felt in my situation.

You loved the wrong person a lot, but think about how much you’ll love the right person when she comes into your life. Prepare yourself mentally and physically to be ready for that one day and the feelings will shift to something like “that stuff didn’t happen to me, it happened for me”. Stay strong brother

BornBandicoot2515 · 2025-05-25T00:56:57+00:00

Time. Therapy. Moving on with someone else (hard but can be true).

Lucky if you don’t have to coparent.

Quirky-Afternoon134 · 2025-05-25T00:00:22+00:00

Black her everywhere. Tell family and friends to not tell you about her activities. When you get the urge, count to 10, look in a mirror and say I am better than this and I don't need to know

MiloGoesToPorridge · 2025-05-24T23:59:23+00:00

Time.

You're already healing if you're largely over her, but you still have that curiosity of what's she's up to- this is normal.

After some time has passed, you won't give two hoots about that either.

Title	Getting over the ex....
Author	rogwild41
Upvotes	14
Comments	16
Date	May 24, 2025 9:58 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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