Title. Has this happened to anyone else?

Even if I act like I don’t want them, they end up wanting me more in this weird and twisted way and I always end up getting them. Sometimes I actually don’t want them, or I act like I don’t want them - and it works. Not in a weird or cocky way but coming across as if I am friend zoning them…

Is this just human / female nature? Is a man doing such an act (not wanting them) causing an effect in their brain or whatever signifying that the man is of “high status” or has enough abundance already, so the girl feels the need to test that out or something? Does it have to do with validation?

I wouldn’t say it’s unethical, or ethical. It’s just the way it is.

Thoughts?