My biggest problem is the fact that I'm scared of not finding a girlfriend again. I met with a woman when I was 21 and she was 31. It lasted for 1,5 years.

After that I tried finding a girlfriend but couldn't manage it somehow. I'm 25 now and a bit needy. There're "what if" thoughts on my mind all the time. "What if she doesn't reply to my text? What if we go on a date but then she doesn't want to see me again?" etc.

And probably because of these thoughts I've scared women that I've met away. I kept texting them to get guarantee that if we're gonna certainly meet or to understand that if they're still interested, etc.

Right now, I’m kind of better at not texting women that much but the results don’t still change.

“Is it possible to do everything right and yet still fail?” I wonder.

There are lots of different dating advice on the internet and most of them contradict each other. I don’t know which one to listen to but I also don’t know what I’m doing wrong – if I’m doing anything wrong.

I go on dates with women. I talk about fun stuff. I try not to be a creep. I don't try kissing them on the first date. I ask about their lives. Sometimes on the 2nd dates we kiss. And after that, women just start ghosting me. They either don't text back or take too long to text back.

Do you have any idea WHY?..

And like I said, is it possible to do everything right and yet still fail and be single forever?