How Marriage Exploits Men

dougpschyte · 2025-07-01T10:29:01+00:00

Wealth transfer from men to women. First, the tax system, where men still pay 72% of the income tax base. It supports welfare, where men are paying to raise the kids of 'strong, independent' women, and put a roof over their head. Then, marriage....which, since the advent of 'no fault' divorce is merely a legal means whereby a woman can asset-strip a man, and leave him in the gutter. And where a man can still be legally obliged to raise the children of other men.

https://jme.bmj.com/content/33/8/475.abstract

Have a look at the 'Increase in Women's Wealth' section of this link. Equality?? Are we nearly there, yet?

https://www.2xglobal.org/new-to-gender-lens-investing/what-is-gli

OnlyWest1 · 2025-07-01T10:02:46+00:00

Something i worry about in regard to marriage is something I don't think a lot of people think or talk about.

I've been a man a long time. I have certain "hang ups" based on what I've seen. I'm worried if I do get into a serious relationship and do get married, will my preferences put a strain on the relationship. For instance, I don't think I could ever put her name on my house or other major property. And I am worried that will breed resentment by showing a lack of trust. But at the same time - if I lose my house in this economy, I'm fucked. I'm halfway paid (year 8) on a 15 year note.

gundamfan83 · 2025-07-01T19:18:37+00:00

This is a lazy way to get views. Make ai slop, use ai voiceovers and then post to a community that is rabid for discussion

MrVentz · 2025-07-02T07:28:32+00:00

I dunno..

TBH I've been married for a few years now, living together for a decade and what you learn in a long-term relationships is - compromise.

Sure, your attention is drawn towards your spouse, sure your wealth becomes the wealth of the unit. I mean, when you were children, do you guys remember your father having wealth, but your mother scrambling to make ends meet? If you do, your parents are probably divorced by now. On the other hand, there's food on the table that I had no hand in making and it's made for me. She cares if I like it, will try her best to do better if I don't. My clothes are clean, the house isn't a mess, I always have someone to talk to, someone to snuggle when falling asleep.. We both have plans for the future and if I don't do things to move them along, she will.

And it's not all losing everything to gain something for the guy.

What the author doesnt take into account too much is the fact, that the woman sacrifices pretty much everything too. Yes, her emotional well being is a primary concern, mainly because you don't want your loved one to feel lousy. But on the other hand, the goal of the unit is to make humans and for the man, it's the easier and happier part of the deal - Have sex a lot. On the other hand, the woman is in for a year-long ride into feeling like shit, having medical issues she never had to deal with before, pain, hormonal imbalance. Fun becomes something you're allowed to do, not something that comes naturally. And then the 18 or so years before the kid can take care of itself and you're allowed to become a woman again, after being a mother for almost two decades. And through all of it, the male partner is valuable, needed and welcomed. Her firends usually take a hike too, either becoming invested in their own relationships or feeling so lousy about not having one that spending time with someone who's happy in a one feels like being hungry and talking to someone who's eating all the time, you get me? My wife used to have a huge friend group, after commiting to a relationship with me, most of her male friends just stopped responding to her and most of her female friends just either began to ghost her (I think it's because they all wanted to fuck her and now there was no way to do it anymore) or to make impossible demands (we'll go for a trip together, but everything has to revolve around my child, don't ever try to upstage me or prove that you're better in any way at all,...)

It should work.. It worked for millenia between men and women.. Unless there's a misunderstanding - the dude doesnt want kids, or taking care of them, the woman mistaking the guy for an ATM or a free pass to Funland (travelling, vacations,..).

I guess it's about maturity. You're either mature enough to get married, or you're not ready for that and need more time to chase after fun and games.

What you guys on this sub should really get is this:

The world is divided enough as it is. There's a divide between religious people, between races, between political views, economic status,.. I think if anything, men and women should learn to stick together again, stop watching so many brainwashing movies and actually live the life you have. A woman scammer isn't worse than a male scammer, just because she's a woman. You're the problem if you fall for the scam..

QuasiQwazi · 2025-07-02T12:37:03+00:00

Generous people are exploited regardless of sex. However men make up the vast majority of exploited people because they are not hypergamous. If you are caring and sharing, as most men are, you will be exploited. Don’t be surprised when it happens. Expect it as inevitable. Don’t let it make you bitter. Protect yourself knowing that it is coming.

gunny316 · 2025-07-01T19:08:06+00:00

Great vid but the animation is weird and distracting

RealStarkey · 2025-07-01T21:39:20+00:00

Happy husband, or, you’ll be alone and abandoned.

Title	How Marriage Exploits Men
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Date	July 1, 2025 9:59 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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