Gray divorce here - married for 30+, adult kids - so no custody of child support issues.

We called it quits in Jan, separated and moved out of marital house in March, house sold in April and we split proceeds. Both of us have our own lawyers. We started out thinking we’d do it amicably. Plan was to go the mediation route, have each of our lawyers review and bless the agreement , and provide input during the mediation. Our lawyers said it’s a simple case, they could “mediate” it themselves. And we agreed, thought it would save time and money.

It’s been almost 5 months since we separated. In that time, my lawyer took about 2.5 months to come up with an initial agreement proposal (again relatively straight forward). And now her side has been sitting on the proposal for two months!! No word from them. She’s the higher earner, she’d owe money so understandably she’s not in any rush. But my lawyer seems to be dragging feet as well.

I was wondering if things typically move at such snail’s pace, or am I particularly unlucky here?