Should I be honest to an older woman that she’s my first experience with somebody significantly older?

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Captain-Comment · 2025-08-10T10:31:44+00:00

Then answer sarcastically. Tell her you're super inexperienced but make it like a joke where she hopefully won't take it seriously. Then make a joke about her maybe teaching you some stuff.

Captain-Comment · 2025-08-10T10:15:47+00:00

I definitely wouldn't advertise it if she doesn't ask. You'll look like a leper if she finds out you're inexperienced and you'll probably lose your opportunity.

Magonbarca · 2025-08-10T12:06:00+00:00

Useless if you're hitting try to admit and confess less you don't know what might be the red flag for women each one has a unique set if red flags just avoid extra drama (some dudes admit virginity to girls with really no need) and keep it hitting my man

dogbusinessman · 2025-08-10T13:09:55+00:00

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-08-10T15:29:32+00:00

She'll pick up that you're inexperienced. You don't have to mention it outright, but you also can as you're being honest. She might appreciate the sincerity.

ConjunctEon · 2025-08-10T17:21:51+00:00

Say you don’t know. You don’t ask their age.

cjunc2013 · 2025-08-10T19:46:23+00:00

A bit of sarcasm and fun for sure when navigating this

norwegiandoggo · 2025-08-10T10:17:03+00:00

Of course you should be honest when she asks

3RADICATE_THEM · 2025-08-10T10:25:00+00:00

Here's some valuable piece of advice I constantly need to keep relearning in life:

When in doubt, don't think.

Long-Importance6932 · 2025-08-10T12:14:22+00:00

Maybe she’s fragile and will break? Maybe she’s tired and slow? Maybe she needs reassurance you are truly attracted to her? I definitely think old like young men for lots of libido but no woman hopes you’ve been around. Sooner have a virgin a million times over personally. Strange anyone would wanna used product. Ever. Body counting is a young fuck bragging thing. She could very well hate you for talking g like that. I sure would. Depending on her age she could be conscientious about cervical cancers and staying healthy too so you may want to present her with a full STD check?? Go easy on her. I highly doubt everyone wants an ‘experienced’ partner as you claim.

epimpstyle · 2025-08-10T12:24:52+00:00

Throughout human history, men have always looked for younger women, not older ones! Of course, there are exceptions, but I consider those cases to be taboo.

MetaphysicalDominant · 2025-08-10T16:45:39+00:00

Is her question appropriate? If it is, then be honest. If not, then say it’s inappropriate. Or ask her why she’s asking.

Title	Should I be honest to an older woman that she’s my first experience with somebody significantly older?
Author	WetBigSlap
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	August 10, 2025 10:01 AM UTC (11 months ago)
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