26 now, basically I was in shape & fairly 26 attractive 18-21, and had no problem just running through girls on apps, dating multiple girls just to smash, got pretty addicted to sex during that time and just made it my life. I did have some issues with porn then but wasn't really a problem because I had no issues getting laid. Since I moved out I've still kept in shape and don't have a problem getting attention, but I haven't been dating or scared to ask girls out, I've lost my confidence or just don't have enough attraction but I don't know what's wrong.

My last job waiting tables I got attention from girls like notes on reciept etc but I don't know where I got too insecure to pull the trigger. Don't know if it has to do with drug experimentation/issues. I've also felt insecure and ashamed of being broke and not having things together in life that I feel like a loser, when before I didn't. I'm not sure what's wrong w me.