How do you find dates in your 40s?

probebeta · 2025-08-15T01:14:14+00:00

I had plenty of luck with Hinge. You just have to learn how to filter out potential bad dates. High interest is almost always guaranteed to be a waste of time, which I don't have. Depends what you're looking for honestly... Can't say I met any LTR material there. You can just tell the volume of dudes these go through 😅

That1TimeN99 · 2025-08-15T00:35:28+00:00

Know this. Mid age women with kids and their own home and independent means.. probably dried up their theirs exes.. don’t be next

fsk71823 · 2025-08-14T23:45:52+00:00

I'll be in the same boat soon. Mid 40's with kids is always enticing to women... Might benefit from being single for a while.

jimmycrackcode · 2025-08-14T23:41:57+00:00

Feeld. I do well there.

Slowloris81 · 2025-08-14T23:19:00+00:00

Had positive experience with Hinge.

Paddle_Pedal_Puddle · 2025-08-14T23:18:36+00:00

It’s gonna be different for everyone. Me? I’ve got two youngish kids and a busy life. I don’t have time for online dating and sifting through all the chaff. I have no problems meeting women in real life. If I meet someone who seems to have a good heart and gives me the right vibes, I’ll ask her out.

Helpful-Paramedic463 · 2025-08-14T23:02:09+00:00

I've had a lot of luck with Facebook dating. Shotgun approach. Blast them all. Filter them and move to text then a date.

EvalCrux · 2025-08-14T22:53:29+00:00

Just as lamely as when you’re 20s or 30s. Much wider range to shoot for is actually net positive, just with all the modern lame OLD tools at your disposal.

Maybe the boat house or lambo will help.

Title	How do you find dates in your 40s?
Author	CraigToday
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	August 14, 2025 10:45 PM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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