Is being physically close a good idea to the woman?

geardluffy · 2025-09-14T22:07:57+00:00

Too much too soon. If you want to build sexual tension, you have to show it in your expressions and give the occasional touch throughout the date. Don’t just jump into her personal space from the get go without her feeling comfortable with you.

It’s not necessarily that you can’t in any circumstance, it’s more so that if this is your first time meeting her, unless shes down bad, she’s going to want to warm up to you first.

Away_End_4408 · 2025-09-14T21:56:52+00:00

No it's a terrible idea to show that you're romantically interested in them it's better you stay home.

ivoryfaker · 2025-09-14T22:38:13+00:00

I think proximity is a good way of indicating interest. With that being said, use it to your advantage! Create scenarios where you are close and then pull back. She will FEEL that.

ConjunctEon · 2025-09-14T23:07:51+00:00

I was taking a first date into a club. At the doorman, all of a sudden she was leaning into me, one arm around my waist, her other hand on my chest. That question got answered for me.

So, the point is be aware of cues from your date.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-09-14T22:09:48+00:00

Yes bro this is day one fundamentals. Basic way to build physical escalation.

TransitionNormal1387 · 2025-09-14T23:36:53+00:00

Hopefully she will be the one to move closer to you.

bbull412 · 2025-09-14T23:48:03+00:00

What ?

Heavy_Consequence441 · 2025-09-15T02:49:12+00:00

Definitely. This is normal for a date and plenty of women like physical touch. But don't be weird about it or force it, that's the worst

Rare-Degree-9596 · 2025-09-15T03:05:10+00:00

It's better that this happens as the night progresses, organically.

As someone said too much too soon, or trying to maneuver too purposefully. Strategizing.

Don't actively strategize.

Let the circumstances flow and you adapt to them, but also don't be so passive the moments grow stale.

That's why it's important to have a rough idea of a dynamic date, or meetup. An activity or event, a meal, snacks and refreshments, a chance to be in an intimate quiet place to talk, walk or wander, these types of activities allow opportunities of touching and closeness. And one-on-one time and if you really want to get close...dancing!

Guys really under estimate the power of dancing! Want closeness, touching, smelling, feeling how the other person moves, feeling their body? Dance, dance, dance! Want to get her to kiss you first? Dance really, really well, get her laughing and smiling! It works!

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-09-15T03:12:18+00:00

Generally you want her to be doing this. You can do it too if she is receptive to it but you need to read her body language and see.

Dandys3107 · 2025-09-15T07:39:29+00:00

Just a bit. But if you want to seduce your friend, you need to do much more than that. Show your sexually attractive traits, go through unique situations together, trigger variety of emotions, instead of being too kind and friendly, be more teasing, challenging, cocky. You need to gradually move the context, don't be too forceful, make small steps and adjust to her reactions.

Title	Is being physically close a good idea to the woman?
Author	HedgehogOk3756
Upvotes	29
Comments	14
Date	September 14, 2025 9:49 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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