22 yrs old virgin

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-17T14:13:32+00:00

Here's why women ignore you:

You feel worthless, which is unattractive. Women can notice this from a distance. A guy who feels worthless seems worthless to them. They see only what you're projecting. And if you feel bad about yourself - they will feel bad about you too.
You can approach women in India. Believing you can't is a lie. Getting rejected is a normal part of the process.
You aren't learning from your rejections. You're not trying to learn. If you were trying to learn you would explain your approach, and ask what's wrong with your approach. Then you would adjust and improve your approach for next time - getting better and reducing the chance of rejection. But you're not doing that. You're focused on other things.

Real_Agreeable_Pea · 2025-10-17T15:15:11+00:00

Me too, at 28. Things have their own way of unfolding, man. Keep trying and who knows wat might land in ur lap. But u gotta keep trying. We, Indian men are brought up with a mindset and the society too doesnt help us. So try to get out if you can but a word of caution, if things arent meant to be, then no matter wat u do, where u go, even across oceans, its not gonna happen! Period.

How do i know? Cuz i have been thru it. Yes. All of it. But that’s my story, not yours!! Mind you, i can speak to anyone and even women. I can make ppl laugh sometime. I have built some hobbies too. Back in my mid 20s, i was naive, like really naive. Women hit on me and i didnt take a hint. But its alright. I have learnt to live with it. And as u get older gain some experience, u will feel more confident. So this feeling of worthlessness wont last forever.

You have to keep trying and learn from ur mistakes and keep improving. Another thing you can do at 22 is try moving to a place/join a class where there is a chance to interact with opposite gender.

Hope this was helpful. All the best.

bonvoysal · 2025-10-17T14:28:58+00:00

What are you majoring in?

Also, are you a funny person by nature---and this is a hard question because I've known many guys who believed they were funny, but they weren't. If you have never made women laugh or you struggle making them laugh, then you're not a funny person. One thing i learned back in the days when i sucked talking to women, if you're funny, you might have a chance.

But the feeling worthless part---that is something women can spot miles away. That might not be helping you. I've gone through that and the question is, well, where to even begin? In my case, i had female friends who helped me point out what "sucked" about me, and from there, went on to improve that, then also learned to be funny. Good luck.

Matter_Still · 2025-10-18T01:15:35+00:00

I'm thinking of a guy right now. I don't know him well. We met once. Bright kid. About your age. He graduated last year from NYU, landed his dream job, but the company is going belly-up. On Monday, last Monday, he was let go. He was devastated. The next day he had a nasty headache and started vomiting. By Tuesday night, a scan showed two brain tumors. Surgery was scheduled for Wednesday morning. One of the tumors was removed. Malignant. The other was biopsied. Malignant.

He started coming around this morning. He's intubated and being fed through a tube. Maybe tomorrow he'll be allowed to suck on some ice.

You only have one problem. It's epidemic, and some of us just have flare-ups; for most of us, it's a chronic condition: ingratitude, aggravated by self pity.

This kid, if he's lucky has five years, with bouts of chemo, more surgeries, and god only knows what else.

Here's the thing about ingratitude: it's far more insidious than shyness or a lack of social skills. You can';t see ingratitude but it creates an "aura".

There's an expression Blue Angel pilots use during briefings when first addressed.

"Glad to be here."

Start walking around on your job, in clubs, on the street...wherever, like you are "glad" to be there. See if anything changes. Before you approach a girl, or as you are, give thanks to someone or something, God, the club owner, or the Lyft driver that got you there and say, "Glad to he here." because you can take this to the bank. Countless millions of guys would like to be in your shoes.

classyjerk007 · 2025-10-17T17:58:37+00:00

I am learning seduction as well, I mean have been learning. I am Indian, 5,7. Have had good amount of girls. Have dated a 6 feet model while I was not working on myself and was below average. Just got out of a relationship and trying to learn game back. I can share few insights with you. Don’t give up hope. I think what needs to change is perspective. DM me, I can share whatever I have learnt

Maleficent_Tackle805 · 2025-10-17T18:53:18+00:00

You too worry about the end result just Enjoy the process it will be hard but It can be done .Attack every negative thought and get one positive thought to replace it Go get a hooker and get it done then .focus on building connections I want you just to get over the hump of virgin let go of the tile or any title at creates a limited mindset shift to abdunce and one thing to remember she not special and then focus on going out and talking to women approach approach and approach every girl you think is cute it may blowout but remember so what .

purpleshoesamurai · 2025-10-17T21:57:23+00:00

I used to feel the exact same way as you and felt equally worthless and was equally unsuccessful with women. Honestly, i still feel worthless sometimes, like today. But I have actually had experiences with several different women now. You just need to do mass volume, approach 100-150 women per WEEK! for the next 1 year! And you will have at least a few lays and possibly a girlfriend by next year. Put in the work no matter how you feel. Also, reassess your style, get a new outfit, get a new haircut, if you wear glasses get contact lens instead. Your look definitely matters, and your style, hair, and face definitely matter way more than your height, skin color, or muscles. but keep in mind getting with women won't fix the internal issues that make you feel worthless in the first place, you will connect with women who are like you at first, equally desperate for validation and love and worthiness. but i hope you can connect with and fuck a few women and learn to have healthy relationships with women. i am still learning how to do that myself.

Dyvanna · 2025-10-17T14:40:08+00:00

What hobbies do you have. More to the point, 1. what hobbies can you enthuse about for hours, 2. what hobbies do you do where you can meet new people/women, personally I learnt salsa because I like dancing and it's perfect to meet new people.

Alarmed_Box1198 · 2025-10-17T15:58:48+00:00

You said you can't approach women there? Is this a law?

oldiebaldie9369 · 2025-10-18T00:25:56+00:00

Being a virgin is better than being jobless

WarMachine552 · 2025-10-18T20:08:56+00:00

You're Indian so just get an arranged marriage.

Be thankful you have this option because most people do not.

New_Banana3858 · 2025-10-17T16:33:33+00:00

85% of women feel the exact same way as you do. Let that sink in.

GiotaroKugio · 2025-10-18T14:32:12+00:00

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Title	22 yrs old virgin
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Date	October 17, 2025 1:34 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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