Social media has f everything up. Reducing men and women to 2D images. You swipe left or right and usually if you’re a man, you will not get a chance to express your human self, your best attributes to a woman you find attractive because chances are, you won’t get a sniff.

Women have their complains too I suppose but I’m a man so this post is for men.

When I was a child growing up to be a teenager I was shocked at how my male cousins, school mates viewed women. I was not raised by my father to view them as sexual objects. I didn’t realise that the pretty girl I had a crush was being banged by some guy I knew and he would label her as a slut. What a reality… I found it hurtful that a girl could be labelled in such a way. What I found even more hurtful was that a pretty girl like that could even be summoned and deceived so easily by this male acquaintance (friend, school mate, cousin) of mine.

I was a delusional kid, I thought everyone matches perfectly and we find our spouses and live happily ever after.

But I’m still that kid deep inside. When I’m around women I’m genuinely still attracted to them. It doesn’t have to be sexual. It can be me wanting to be as handsome as possible, my hair should be neat, I want to smell good, I want women to think of me as an attractive or at least a man who has something to be desired about.

I’ve seen red pill perspectives , I’ve agreed to some of them to an extent even. Maybe they have a point, I hope they’re wrong about some things. Because if they’re right then there’s a good chance that I will never find a woman because this world is too cold, or by the time I should find a woman I may just want to prefer being alone and live my days with a dog.

But I will never stop feeling the way I do when I’m walking down a mall and I see attractive women. I still smile at them. And that feeling is still kinda surreal. I have no idea who they are , good or bad, maybe that girl has traits similar to angels, or she’s cheating on her husband, it’s better not to look into Pandora’s box.

But it’s nice to “feel” that biological rush of being attractsd to women. To smile at them and occasionally to see one smile back. It’s a good feeling. It makes me forget about my woes of being alone… for a few seconds. But it’s a powerful few seconds.

Question for the men: do you still feel that magnetic attraction and that buzz when you walk by or are near an attractive (subjective to you) woman?