Huge history of issues with my wife. Biggest issue for me is lack of care. Example is that for the past 3 years i have had 15+ surgeries and at no time did she take me, went to hospital, or even checked on me while I was there. Which is sad and scares the shit out of me about our future with my health issues. Also she was pissed when she found out I could retire early cause it was not fair to her.

Well this week is thanksgiving week and my family came down to visit. Her family literally refuses to visit even though they live in the same town. Needless to say she was pissy the whole time, avoided conversations and literally hasn't spoken to me since yesterday before the dinner. Also she refuses to come out and hang out with family and insteads stays in her room playing on her phone or watching tv. My family has told me it is blantantly obvious she doesn't want them there, it's like walking on eggshells around her and they don't want to cause tension. Which pisses me off and makes me sad as all I want is to be happy.

So I think it is time to ask for a divorce and will do it after my family leaves. Just needed to vent.