Women’s only Group Chats

jessi387 · 2025-11-29T19:43:29+00:00

It’s ironic because then they’ll complain about a men’s only group, or why aren’t you inviting you’re female colleagues to something

road_laya · 2025-11-29T23:44:24+00:00

I noticed that the female managers would start inviting all the female engineers at my place of work to women-only after work pub runs. Six months later, all but one of them had received promotions. No other promotions were handed out that year.

GrandyRetroCandy · 2025-11-29T20:00:45+00:00

I keep trying to help my fellow men understand this. And I'm going to make a lot of men uncomfortable by saying this but it needs to be heard.

You can keep going to the gym and becoming stronger, and yes that will keep your body healthy and that's a great thing. You should keep going. But that's aside from the point.

You're not going to win any battles that way. The battles that determine where your life heads going forward are not fought physically.

If you don't learn the social ways of women, you're in trouble. If we can't be in tune with the landscape and raise your social aptitude, we are in trouble.

They're graduating college at higher rates than us. They're running workplaces. And they run very fast to HR (which is also ran by them). They run a lot of politics and popular culture now. They run many households where men don't get a say. They're favored in court.

You will be a victim if they are socially smarter than you. The famous last words are no woman is going to harm me. Not physically, not usually. But in a world where we have systems. HR departments. Social weaponization.

They could get you fired. They could get you arrested. They don't need any muscles, they only have to outgun you socially.

If you're afraid, I'm sorry to say, you should be and admitting it would be the smart thing to do because again, famous last words: "no woman is going to harm me". You sure? Female Boss, female HR department, female judge in a court of law, female police officers? How's that going to go for you?

Will every decision be made logically or along the chain of events and chain of command, or will some decisions be made with emotion? Will emotional warfare or weaponization take place, where decisions aren't fair but are based on what is petty and flippant?

For the last 10,000 (100,000?) years men have been working and women have been managing the household and gossiping. Socializing in the community. They know everything that's going on. They are like a web of interconnected discussion. Men go to war, women stay home and manage the community socially.

Socialization was their survival mechanism. And pay attention: they don't have muscles, so lying was a mechanism necessary for survival. To avoid getting hit, hurt, killed. It was used in good faith ways in the past but we are no longer in the past.

This is partly cultural, partly biological, partly societal.

If you don't sharpen your discernment and your social skills theirs will be sharper and they do not care about you. In fact they are out to fuck you up just because you're a "stupid man" and today you made them mad for whatever petty reason.

I'm sorry if it's an unpopular opinion but this is the point in history where for male survival, we need to sharpen our social discernment and social skills. They team up and use deception, acting, faux emotion, and lies to do whatever they want.

If we don't learn defenses we're at risk of being eaten alive....

Men often don't want to admit they are ever possibly compromised underneath female power but I'm telling you it would be a mistake if you can't gauge where things are at and how things are today.

I said what I said...

Centaur_Warchief123 · 2025-11-29T23:19:18+00:00

I think this is the exact reason why MRA will always be behind feminism. Women have 4.5 times more in group bias than men, a woman will always defend and choose another woman even if it is wrong or stupid to do so, while men are mostly impartial. That is why “pick-me” is an insult that is very common among women, not outwardly hating men and being feminist is a social suicide, any kind of positive thought about men in feminist circles will always result in a horde of rabid feminists descending on that poor woman. While men police each other’s bad behaviors most women encourage, hide or support it. I agree with you that men needs to police each other less, simps and white knights are the reason why we are all living in gynocentrism.

Pretend-Storm4566 · 2025-11-30T03:53:28+00:00

All the better to f&%k men over.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-11-30T12:58:59+00:00

If men have there own men talk see how quick women try and gaslight it and be made more in womens type of view and toon.

But you hear so many casual talks of women among them selfs just being very openly disgusting about men very openly.

But the thing is you have to mind your business when they talk like vile people.

But they often are all quick to be all up in your business when you have a talk with mate talking about your bad experiences of women.

Whats a big problem they want all the freedoms on there side to be mean or vile as they want have there own space and remove all men or counter argument against them.

But at the same time not give any of the same thing to the other side.

Why pure empathy for women is a all time high. Many man can see it in there daily live happening all the time. Rules pushed hard on men but removed for women.

And I think thats also a big reason many men are just kinda done dealing with much of society if they don't have to. Cause you have to be so soo blind to not see it happen all the time in work spaces in schools. In business with ladies night execution of men but there is no man's nights almost anywhere.

With rules and laws and court and jail time. And on and on and on. Even on reddit go to a feminism group don't take long to see some pure hate being spit out on men. That would get men banned if they say even half as much.

I think in many ways people are just tired to deal with the bullshit. And they don't fight but try and speed up the decline stop trying to be the good guy or the heroes. And just ignore womens and there problems like they do mens.

Womens way of fighting is loud and trying to anoy people in submission.

Mens way of fighting is silent and just a pure rejection and pull away any money any work or effort or putting any burden on him self of the people that look down on them. And kick back open a beer and watch the circus burn it self to the ground. And saying I told you so after the fact while not even taken the time off day to piss on the fire to help put it out.

So cause more men are slowly doing that is why you see so many news articles and dating meet ups with like 300 women and like maybe 5 men. And its hilarious.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2025-11-29T19:47:56+00:00

So... you're saying that removing a major check on men's immorality would lead to LESS suffering?

Are you just blinded by your anger, or have you really forgotten how cause and effect work?

Bright_Winter7611 · 2025-11-29T20:01:56+00:00

this is a complete misunderstanding of literaly friend groups

"I have for quite some time now been attentive to what could best be described as “women’s only group chats”. These tend to form at places like work or school" buddy you don't need to create a phrase for a friend group of women

"it seems to serve as a place for women of a place to gossip, coordinate, and talk shit about the men in those places" clearly you've never ben friends with a woman because why do you think that that's all women talk about genuinely? also, is this not you talking shit about women?

"These are very important for women because it allows them to “coordinate” together and mess with men together as a group and they know this is more effective" stop creating a conspiracy theory that women spend all there time plotting against men lol, there not you're enemy and there lives don't revolve around men

"For instance, when a female in college didn’t like me it was no big deal, I don’t need her and I don’t care to talk to her but when she sullied my name and turned several others girls in my class against me that makes it difficult for me. All because she didn’t get her way and she knows this." firstly don't call a woman a female lol, and it sounds like it was you who didn't get your way if she was the one who rejected you, i can't really talk much more about this tho since "turned several others girls in my class against me" is pretty vague

"Many of the issues in our society could be solved if men would STOP POLICING other men" the solution to the imaginary problem that women don't call out other women isn't that men should stop holding accountability, that would just make everything worse. also men don't even hold other men accountable, like not saying they don't, but it's not the idea that the vast majority of men do

"because women DO NOT do it for each other, especially when a man is on the receiving end of mistreatment or injustice" women genuinely do police each other, they're not all friends with each other, you just dk that if you've never ben in those friend groups, not saying it's a bad thing you haven't it just means you shouldn't assume what goes on

"As men our own morality and idealistic sense of fairness is what doomed us." this has to be a joke, you're claiming that men have ben so fair and so kind to women and it's made men suffer which like, no? men absolutely have not done that historically, gay men, women, and men who deviate from the rigid historical gender roles have ben oppressed by the rich and powerful (men) historically, being more fair has helped everyone, including men

"And until we stop being the morally superior gender we are going to suffer." wow. it's genuinely worrying that you're saying men are morally superior and women are morally inferior

"Yes there are some men, a very small percentage that do very bad things, but that doesn’t make us the monsters" women in general do not say all men are monsters lmao

miroku000 · 2025-11-29T21:49:00+00:00

What problems would be solved if men stop policing other men? Also, i do think women police each other sometimes. Most slut shaming, for example is from women towards other women. The weird expectations around makeup and fashion all come from women policing other women.

Title	Women’s only Group Chats
Author	vessel94
Upvotes	131
Comments	40
Date	November 29, 2025 7:21 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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