This happened early in my divorce, maybe even before filing.

I was telling a friend of mine everything I had been going thru with my STBXW; the lies, cheating, manipulation, gaslighting, her sexting and sending nudes to a guy in prison for sex trafficking, plotting against me with him etc.

Anyway, he said to me “Imagine if a friend of yours was telling you this exact same story. What would you think?” That hit me like a ton of bricks. When you are on the crazy train you don’t realize you are actually on it. Only when you get off the crazy train do you see it and realize it.

So ask yourself the same question.

Hope this helps someone.