Women can’t expect men to care and help with their issues when they mock and belittle theirs

_WutzInAName_ · 2026-02-09T04:48:41+00:00

Exactly. The women who wouldn’t stop demanding more for women while neglecting and vilifying men have set themselves up for failure. Of course, they don’t admit this because they’re allergic to accountability. More men are realizing that they’re getting a raw deal from a gynocentric and misandrist society, and are less willing to advocate for or protect those who hate them.

Women will lose more of their rights if more of them aren’t willing to work with men to establish laws and policies that are fair to both.

Punder_man · 2026-02-09T06:50:26+00:00

Is it really surprising that boys / young men are seeing men being demonized and vilified in the news and main stream media and are being less inclined to care about women's issues?

We have feminists spouting about how they want men to "Be their allies" but when you actively look at how most feminists treat boys / men or can't even be bothered to police the misandry within their own movement and then act surprised when men don't want a bar of them..

After all, what's in it for men? at the end of the day you MIGHT get a pat on the head and told "You're one of the good ones" all while having to sit there silently while you are all men are generalized, demonized and vilified without comment or complaint..
And the moment you open your mouth to call them out for their misandry?

Your ass is thrown to the curb and you are told that if you were truly an "Ally" you wouldn't get offended by generalizations because they wouldn't apply to you. AKA they gaslight you into believing that you are actually in the wrong.

Once again I have to ask.. why would any man want to put any time / effort into feminism / women's issues when there's no benefit to them?

Conservatarian1 · 2026-02-09T04:38:12+00:00

It’s not our job to provide solutions.

elebrin · 2026-02-09T12:46:06+00:00

I've had the Man vs. Bear discussion a few times with various women.

The interesting part is that the woman is always the victim of circumstance: either she gets mauled by the bear, or the bear runs off, or the man rapes her, or the man helps her. Those are the four options.

I've said every time, I'd pick the man. What if the man needed help, or the two people work together to help each other? picking the man isn't an either-or for getting help or being harmed. What about YOUR capacity to help? Don't you think you have some responsibility, if you have the ability to help people in a life threatening situation?

Yeah, that went over like a salad made of lead paint chips. I haven't met too many women who feel a sense of social responsibility to help others in need. They didn't even consider that they have the power to help another.

If you are lost in the woods and you find another person and you stick together, there's like a 50% shot that sometimes you are going to help them and sometimes they are going to help you. There's a small possibility that you will be in the position to help the other person exclusively, or that the other person will help you exclusively. And then, yes, there's maybe a 10% chance that the other person is going to be dangerous to you. I'd argue that even a very dangerous person might put aside their predilections to deal with the present situation before harming you.

AbysmalDescent · 2026-02-09T17:51:14+00:00

So many women like to hate on men for not getting into politics, but how can you even expect men to care about politics when they can't even get recognition for even the most basic of issues from their own peers and government. When men face constant discrimination and prejudice, constant fear and hatred, constant violence and mistreatment, but all of it is normalized and the people cheering/defending those inequalities are asking you to care more about their issues.

Prizrak95 · 2026-02-09T10:37:53+00:00

Yes!!! This!! It's not like they're gentle, caring and good to us, so why are people EVEN HERE forcing us to be those things to them?

AcanthocephalaOk4669 · 2026-02-09T16:19:04+00:00

At this point, i don't care what women want. They would ratter see me dead than face accountability and true equality.

It's always : "men bad" "women victim" and double standard talks.

I will fight for myself and men rights.

Salamadierha · 2026-02-09T13:28:08+00:00

Oh they can and certainly will expect it, they're going to be sadly disappointed though.

Sonarconnoisseur · 2026-02-09T08:55:45+00:00

They can, they do and most men are helping them.

brainhack3r · 2026-02-09T18:57:17+00:00

I hate to say it, but I think one of the big oppositions to abortion is that some men are basically doing it as a protest vote against feminism.

They're tired of women not supporting our issues, so as a form of protest, they've decided that they don't want to support women's issues.

I also think that one of the reasons that feminists want abortion legal is because many of them are Jezebels and were in their ho phase, and without ready access to abortion, they can't remain in their ho phase.

I do think there are valid reasons for it. But I think a lot of people protest against abortion as a way to fuck over Democrats and liberals.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2026-02-09T15:18:57+00:00

The Democrat lobbying organization (perhaps "movement" would be a better term, but perhaps not; I don't think it's completely centralized) has gone through a great deal of trouble to make the modern American mind completely conflate "women's issues" with "abortion". Thus, women who prioritize abortion rights above all else will, indeed, be strongly aligned to vote for Democrats- but not only does not every woman want that, many women have issues that they care deeply about that aren't abortion, if you can believe that.

This is all very intentional; keep us at each others' throats so we don't go for theirs. The kind of empathy we seek isn't going to come from the establishment- ANY establishment.

NationalJournalist42 · 2026-02-10T01:27:33+00:00

I agree!

Title	Women can’t expect men to care and help with their issues when they mock and belittle theirs
Author	NoMortgage2156
Upvotes	369
Comments	29
Date	February 9, 2026 4:28 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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