I am seriously considering divorcing my wife. When we met I was in a very bad place emotionally and had a drinking problem. I drank the red flags away. I knew she was bad with money but I didn't know how bad. I wouldn't marry her without a pre-nup which she signed.

She surprised me one morning by telling me she needed to declare bankruptcy. We never commingled our finances and never really talked about money.

I then sobered up and have been sober for four years. She has hoarding tendencies and a shopping addiction. I am done. She is always broke but has champagne tastes.

She has nothing to her name because her credit is so bad. I worry that she won't survive on her own but I cannot survive with her in my life. Why the fuck is this even hard for me?