In the past two months, I tried approaching three girls I always found attractive and both attempts backfired badly. Little did i know that all three of them were not positively responsive to such approaches.

The first girl was very reserved & closeted. She had endured physical+mental abuse along with cheating in her past relationships, me trying to create a fun, flirty vibe did not land well with her. Her brain triggered red alert, she thought I’m again some f@ckboi trying to deceive her. She got extremely guarded and anxious.

The second girl I tried rizzing again did not respond well to my approaches. She was this typical traditional woman who liked old school, deep & slow burning love story. Her idea of a partner was someone who she could get comfortable and connect emotionally. She was this typical girl who you’d write letters, love bomb, and she’d have deep, comforting sweet talks. My rizzler approach(having confidence, compliments, tease, flirt, banter…etc) did not resonate with her, she said I’m not her taste. She couldn’t connect with me on an emotional level.

The third woman I tried my game had self image issues, and she got overly conscious rather than engaged when I used a teasing and flirty tone.

Now I’ve started sort of doubt mainstream seduction stuff in the Internet. I feel the moment you try to be this confident “smart-ass”, it somewhere deep down triggers this f@ckboi red alert in a lot of woman’s mind and you’re quickly labeled as insincere. It also made me realize that a lot of women still value a more grounded, emotionally safe, and traditional style of connection over flashy or flirt-heavy approaches. And one falling for rizz generally are extroverted, socially active women.