I don’t know where to start, so I’ll start by saying that I am simply confused and frustrated.

For some more backstory, I am constantly told that I am attractive or very good looking. To the point where people who hate me they try to insult me by saying that I have absolutely gotten the clap. Implying that yes I am attractive, but so stupid I don’t use protection.

I have seen all over the Internet men complaining about barely getting any matches on dating apps, and that has been somewhat the opposite for me.

I say somewhat because when it comes to most decently, attractive women, I barely get any matches with them however, when I do get matches with attractive women, they are with legitimate bombshells. I’m talking 10 out of 10 that when I show my friends what they look like they are just in shock and awe. They are not fake profiles either they have been photo and ID verified on their profiles.

The conversations do not go that far (because I am terrible at texting and text game), but still, I am able to match with beautiful women.

And this is exactly what eats me up inside because apparently only really attractive men get any sort of matches on dating apps or compliments in real life. At least that’s what the Internet and my friends in real life tell me. According to the Internet, most men only get complimented once by another woman every other decade, if at all.

So Yesterday I tried to go flirting at a bar, (because it was cheap to do so and I was “in the mood”, and also because I was tired of being good at just parties or nightclubs so I wanted to brunch out) and the women were barely paying attention to me, giving me lots of cold shoulders. Whenever I complemented them they just said thanks and moved away. I know what you’re thinking. I must’ve been terrible flirting face to face, but I actually am better at flirting in person that I am a text and many of these cold shoulders were given when I simply just said “hey pleasure to meet you what’s your name?”

A part of me always believe that due to the compliments and women’s natures that the only reason I was never getting flirted with on the street or out and about by a cute girl was because I was so attractive that they must be too shy.

However, that was shattered when I meant two guys that according to the smaller less attractive guy, they’re taller and more jacked friend was always getting hit on by women out on the street. Even being given their numbers or insta.

This kind of crushed my confidence even more because it showed to me that cute girls are more than willing to flirt openly and more directly with really attractive men.

So what is going on? I am so confused. I don’t match with medium attractive girls on dating apps, but almost exclusively with not as attractive women or incredibly beautiful women. No in between.

I never get hit on first by a woman, but I get compliments all the time by men and women who were more bold. I thought that when it comes to bars and club game. It’s all about physical attraction.?????

I’m so confused lads please help me out.