Hey guys,

So last weekend I went out to a club with friends and met a girl I really liked. We were vibing pretty well and she seemed into me too. We also found out we both share a very similar background, which made the conversation feel super easy and relatable.

At some point we realized we actually live really close to each other, so we decided to head back together. At first she said something like “you’re not coming to my place” and I said I wasn’t planning to anyway. But later we kept hanging out, making out, and eventually ended up going back to her place.

We talked more, found more similarities, and ended up sleeping together. Honestly it felt like there was a real spark, not just random.

The next morning though, the vibe felt kinda different. She said she was sleepy and was mostly on her phone. It threw me off a bit because the night before felt pretty strong.

Later that day I texted her on IG saying it was nice meeting her and hope she got some rest. She replied the next day saying it was nice meeting me too, and a few hours later followed me back.

I asked if she wanted to grab a drink sometime and she said “let’s do that.”

But her replies feel kinda low effort. In my experience if someone is actually interested, they usually show it a bit more, like asking things back or keeping the convo going.

Looking at her IG she seems pretty social, so I’m wondering if for her this was just a one night thing.

Is this kind of switch-up normal?And would you guys still try to see her again or just leave it?