After getting the style and confidence down I found the last barrier for me was learning how to talk to women eh?

How to win friends and influence people was a solid start but what really worked well for me I stole from a book called Just Listen by Mark Goulston which taught me this:

When you want to talk to a woman walk up to them and say, “I’m curious, what’s the story behind INSERT THING,” and if they’re feeling you they usually talk a ton.

Then instead of being too serious I try to do what I can to spin whatever they say into a flirty joke and if they’re reciprocate I ask for the number.