So I’ve been separated for seven months. Wife wants a divorce as soon as we be our one year requirement to file it’s not been a particularly easy separation. Her criticisms of me grew more pointed, and she had less grace and patience. Still I miss her. My apartment feels like a place of exile. I was getting used to it kinda a month or so ago when I discovered my wife was sleeping with another man and lying to me about it while also manipulating me to come watch the kids with those lies. It felt like betrayal and it hurt like betrayal. But the extra salt in the wound was the deception and manipulation. I never thought she would go there but here she is. briefly I thought about going out on some dates and trying to move on with my life and signed up for some of the online dating apps. No one on any of them interested in me at all and I promptly canceled them. Still hung up on her and can’t seem to let it go. She’s moved on and if there had been any doubt, it ended it when she climbed into another man’s bed. So now I just sit and nurse my wounded heart. Anyone got any advice for this?