What necessarily is game ?

hunterpua · 2026-04-26T04:26:59+00:00

Having game means being really good at achieving social outcomes.

I don't just limit it to dating. I believe people who are great at selling have great game, I believe people who are really persuasive have great game, I believe people who are compelling speakers have great game.

Of course, people who are great at pulling have great game too.

Key-Proud · 2026-04-25T21:15:05+00:00

That is game ... techniques on how to lead the relationship to sexual or romantic results.

No game does not lead to sexual or romantic results ....

Flirting is getting both the girl and guy to release feel good chemicals that leads to sexually or romantic results.

For example, when you kiss a girl and exchange salvia ... it release feel good chemicals in both the girl and guy.

- Same when you have skin on skin touches with each other ....

Game is leading the interaction were both are comfortable with skin on skin touching, exchanging salvia and eventually intercourse ... to release all the feel good chemicals the body release.

Edit: Game leads the interaction through multiple content to intimacy acts, sex and/or romance

jsbach123 · 2026-04-25T21:55:26+00:00

Game is understanding and accepting the psychological differences between men and women and using that knowledge to increase the odds of attracting her.

For example, men are attracted to women who act feminine and submissive. But the vice versa isn't true. If you assume she likes the same traits that you like, you'll fail in attracting her.

xxxWhoHurtYouxxx · 2026-04-26T00:18:58+00:00

Lol your "cooked"

xxxWhoHurtYouxxx · 2026-04-26T00:19:06+00:00

It's A Evil World We Live In.

"Nice Guys Finish Last"

xxxWhoHurtYouxxx · 2026-04-26T00:19:13+00:00

It's A Evil World We Live In.

-"Stay Toxic"

Imscubbabish · 2026-04-26T00:35:57+00:00

The ability to communicate and attract women is a simple way of explaining it

Express_Can3881 · 2026-04-26T07:16:52+00:00

Game is really just the ability to navigate social tension without folding like a lawn chair. If you can keep your composure when things get weird your miles ahead of most guys.

epimpstyle · 2026-04-26T10:56:47+00:00

The idea behind "game" is to transform you into a pleasant, funny, optimistic, playful, and charismatic person.

How do you become that charismatic and witty person? You tell jokes, share funny stories, use witty lines and crack all sorts of puns. You use double entendres like in this VIDEO. This also includes all kinds of playful gestures and games like VIDEO or VIDEO + as Neil Strauss said, you need the stuff you used to do back in 7th grade... like tapping her on the shoulder and ducking away, bumping into her while walking, winking at her, blowing a kiss, making a heart shape with your hands, toss a crumpled piece of paper at her...

If you do these things and get a negative reaction, it’s no longer "game" at that point, it can be interpreted as "too much" and it's definitely not funny anymore. Having "game" also means knowing when to stop doing too much in too short a time because ALWAYS too much is just as bad as nothing at all.

ControlGood8979 · 2026-04-26T12:29:37+00:00

Talking

Newtabs9 · 2026-04-26T12:38:01+00:00

Flirting (basically)

Pretty much every concept you read about game tech (pushpull, teasing, negs, breaking rapport, framing her as trouble etc etc) all fall under the umbrella of 'flirting'

However, flirting (and thus, game) don't actually MAKE a girl attracted. But if you are good at game/flirting, then you will sleep with a very high number of the girls who ARE attracted to you

AlastairXXL · 2026-04-26T15:40:18+00:00

Seducing a girl into bed

ANewCleanSlate · 2026-05-02T02:32:09+00:00

I think a key skill is being able to express sexual/romantic interest in a way that is non-threatening and somewhat subtle. Playful banter, innuendo, well-placed compliments and flattery, especially when genuine. By not being overly direct you allow her to flirt back and it escalates naturally in a way that is comfortable for her.

CoachSlyDating · 2026-04-25T23:31:53+00:00

Game is a skillset.

It’s not one thing or even three things. It’s many skills, and to be elite you probably need to learn them all, or at least most of them.

Body language and posture

Voice tonality and projection

Eye contact

Physical Fitness

Looksmaxxing (lol)

Fashion / Style

Charisma (lots goes into this)

Acting

Humor

Improvisation

Verbal communication

Flirting

Non-verbal communication/ physical touch

Logistics

Problem Solving

Leadership

Social Circle

Texting

Phone Calls

Flake management

Social Media

Online Dating Game

Social Intelligence

Frame Control (huge one)

Self Esteem work

Some of these skills are easier to learn than others. Some skills will move you up multiple levels, others will just move the needle on the margins. You need to be competent at everything. You might be very charismatic in person, but if your texting is boring, you will lose a lot of leads. I had to work through that phase and hire coaches to help me along the way.

jackthehat6 · 2026-04-26T08:45:21+00:00

how to lead an attracted girl to sex, without messing it up

Title	What necessarily is game ?
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Date	April 25, 2026 8:51 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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