Do you still talk to men?

JackSquirts · 2026-06-05T05:29:54+00:00

I talk to everyone.

Kadabrium · 2026-06-05T05:37:06+00:00

I often find talking with guys more stressful than with girls. If i am to overanalyze, I probably subconsciously believe men are more judgmental and it matters more if they think i'm boring/weird/whatever, while girls=giggity goofy all unserious

lockandlood · 2026-06-05T07:51:50+00:00

I always talk to men. When I enter the bar I immediately search for an "anchor man". Basically he's judt a guy I think I'll get along with. He has a certain look about him I can't quite explain. He sort of looks like he was invited to a pool party, but he can't swim so he's sitting at the edge of the pool with only his legs in. Like he's sort of awkward and to the side of the room. (Sometimes I talk to 1. Sometimes 2 or 3. If I talk to a few different guys and they all seem cool I introduce them to one another and form the Awkward-Guy Posse.)

Anyway, I call him the anchor man because I anchor to him. So I'll leave him to talk to girls and come right back to him afterwards. I always tell him that I'm hitting on girls and I'll be back to talk to him.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-06-05T16:01:36+00:00

i tend to talk to everyone. Tbh when i put my focus on just talking to women, i got less women because i was forcing myself to try to get women.

But when i was open to just tlaking to everyone, the conversations started to be more genuine. And to my surprise, women notice when a guy is liked by multuple people in the room. And when i mean like i dont mean in a romantic sense. In the sense of, people seem to really enjoy being around you.

I had a girl i got with basically tell me how she liked how much of a social butterfly i was. And im not someone social, i grew up a reserved homebody.

ControlGood8979 · 2026-06-05T05:28:27+00:00

You're better off ignoring women. It works for me. You'll get better prospects talking to men in life but only winners and guys with vision not guys who play video games and constantly follow sports.

As a man said I never lost women chasing money but I lost money chasing women.

O_Pacity · 2026-06-07T06:04:39+00:00

I dont do social events... that being said there's a business one i do speaking for, they asked me to go, i declined, but a few other professionals have asked if i am going, so now i have to go... need to pull out the italian one of dress suit and go for maybe 30 mins.

tin8374 · 2026-06-10T03:01:51+00:00

This is kind of me. Idk I feel more relaxed and comfortable talking to women. At parties like I try talking to everyone but like an hour or two in, I'm drinking cocktails and conversing at the women's table. Nothing wrong with it.

Even when I am solo traveling, I'm almost always hing out with a woman or group of women exploring the city

Title	Do you still talk to men?
Author	newme19283
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	June 5, 2026 5:21 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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