The reason for the divorce is because the ex wouldn’t reconcile after my daughter and ex had an argument. I mean she was petty enough to insist to be told when my daughters was coming over for whatever reason. I busted my ass trying to keep the family together but she wouldn’t hear of it.

Initially we were divorcing on terms that we were nice to each other and it was a joint decision to get divorced. Now ….. it’s my fault because I didn’t stand up for her(the ex) when my daughter was arguing with her. It was a pretty heated argument, I’m not going to lie. But should I have “stood up” for the ex during the argument? It was all verbal, nothing physical. What was I supposed to do? Tell my daughter to shut up, I mean some of the stuff she said is true. Just pisses me off that she is making it sound like it’s my fault, now. Thanks for letting me rant.