I have this think that I’m either very energetic kinds like the Wolf of Wall Street or I’m really in my frame (trying to be like James Bond, the only difference is when I do that I get anxiety because I’m in my head).
Anyway I’m not sure which approach to take like being energetic asking question etc (feels a bit being a good guy or weak) or more like “sigma” calm and collected (and after I’ll tear down my anxiety) asking questions and bantering with women.
Like I need to lead the conversation but when I’m in “bond mode” I’m like really stoic and more reacting then leading like I would do opener(Hi you seemed interesting, are you? Then ask for her name and then it usually goes down hills)