As a response to kino escalation, the girl went with this shit test: "So what are you trying to get at here?"

basedkitty6 · 2015-12-31T14:58:14+00:00

My strategy is different from the comments here and still works. I'm very direct, bold and aloof. My results are way better this way. I love the face they do when I'm direct. They are shocked - later they say how much they liked.

Most guys are pussies. They keep beating around the bush. If she gave you solid IOIs then go full direct and bold. Needless to say that you need a solid abundance mentality for this to work.

Roissy said it best:

XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little

Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an asshole, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate asshole beats being a polite beta, every time.

MattyAnon · 2015-12-31T14:25:04+00:00

Understand that she's trying to regain control, and gain security of the situation (ie commitment from you). Give this and lose the girl.

Any response works except the truth.

draketton · 2015-12-31T15:23:23+00:00

Eyebrow flash and a stronger grab, don't say a word

donit · 2015-12-31T17:57:27+00:00

I would flip the shit test back on her: "I'm just checking to see how you respond to my touch, to see if you're able to connect with me."

Make it a test for her to pass or fail as a part of her progress toward winning your emotions, your love, warmth, attention and affection.

She's Mario, and those are all the coins she's bouncing around trying to get.

bittr_n_swt · 2015-12-31T11:56:58+00:00

solid response.

i got faced with that exact question 2 months ago, can't remember my response and i think i borderlined passed or failed it but still got a BJ but not sex

look_good · 2015-12-31T13:22:50+00:00

Depends on the tone of her shit test.

"What are you talking about" --> Talk about how you're like this with everyone. Remain aloof.

mrrooftops · 2015-12-31T19:18:57+00:00

I was in this situation once. I said, "I'm looking for my wallet". I'm a cheeky fucker. Perfect escalation excuse and pulls her into your frame even more in a playful way. "Maybe it's here..."

2015-12-31T21:46:48+00:00

In light of my experiences where I got what I wanted the fastest, I gave off the vibe that I didn't really give a shit about her tests or ASD. I just said, 'I dunno' in a confident amused tone and just kept doing it almost competently distracted by her body.

She'll say other shit and just keep going along with what she's saying but do what you want if you still have physical rapport.

-The-Pussy-Whisperer · 2015-12-31T22:21:01+00:00

It's like all you guys forgot what teasing a girl is like. 🙄

plenkton · 2016-01-01T03:30:04+00:00

"Exactly what YOU have in mind."

or if you are really alpha with her (but the shit test is her ASD):

"What you're dying to give me." (Prepare for drenched panties.)

TimeIGetToPhoenix · 2016-01-01T23:11:04+00:00

"So, what are you trying to get at here?"

I would've said something along the lines of, "third base" or "your bra strap"...... Confidently with a slight smirk of course.

Sir_Distic · 2015-12-31T17:47:23+00:00

What about this? "I'm trying to get at your pockets for change. I want to order a pizza." Said with a huge grin. or something similar?

blacwidonsfw · 2015-12-31T13:10:46+00:00

"Your boobs"

egoisenemy · 2015-12-31T16:08:09+00:00

If it was getting heavy, one thing that helped me get laid a lot was just ignore them for 5 min. I would just go on my phone and face away from them; since they are already in the mood, it frustrates them and gets them to hamster away in your favor. After 5 minutes, get back at it and it you'll get laid.

HS-Thompson · 2015-12-31T18:37:38+00:00

The other technique besides A&A people often cite is the pressure flip. This seems like a good oportunity for that, something like "Why, nervous?" while looking her in the eye and not getting flustered.

JamesSkepp · 2015-12-31T14:57:13+00:00

"I'm not getting at, I'm getting in" :D

randarrow · 2015-12-31T16:43:35+00:00

It's a rhetorical question. Also might be a fitness test more than a shit test. Ignore, look at her briefly, smile and continue.

If you want a real response, "Everything. I want everything."

Apexk9 · 2015-12-31T20:08:07+00:00

"I'm going to drive you wild until every bone in your body is begging to jump on my dick"

Or something a long the lines.,

The way I see it. If she digs it its ez mode to sex. If she doesnt I cant just move on and not waste any time.

Title	As a response to kino escalation, the girl went with this shit test: "So what are you trying to get at here?"
Author	Krainz
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Date	December 31, 2015 11:47 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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