Tinder makes me frustrated

onedamnman · 2021-03-08T09:12:12+00:00

I have cool pics and get poor results too. Tinder is the worst it’s ever been. Lockdown has meant more men are using the app than ever so the competition is high. Also online dating triggers women’s hypergamy to the extreme. So those factors make it basically impossible for the average guy to get good matches + meets. I was with a plate and we went on our tinders as a joke and she matched with every guy she swiped right on but said she found 99% of them unattractive even though some were better looking than me.

I’m in lockdown too but I feel better not dating than trying to chase girl online. Tinder is toxic so if you aren’t getting matches just delete that shit. Fuck an escort every couple months.

Smerdakas · 2021-03-08T09:22:34+00:00

Tinder is toxic af, and lockdown makes it worse. If you really want to give it a go, try after lockdown is over. For the time being, delete it and keep your sanity.

Optionsmfd · 2021-03-08T10:54:50+00:00

try 2 pics

1 face and 1 body

zero profile.........

try it on tinder hinge facebook dating and bumble and see the results

i think the less they know..... the more interested they are

TravisScottNL · 2021-03-08T11:02:51+00:00

Flaking/ghosting are at an all time high , I mean you can still have some succes on tinder I guess don’t expect too much from it

And you might want to consider some dope fits and a professional photographer

KuritaT · 2021-03-08T14:27:32+00:00

First of all, your height isn't ideal for OG. Cheat yourself to at least 180cm, what is it in the weird metrics you Americans use? 5'11? 6'0? Whatever. You get the point. Buy cheater shoes that make you look taller. Some fine boots or so. Don't worry about what girls think. Most have no clue about dimensions. The only thing that matters is that you are taller.

The best profiles have 3-4 pictures on I believe. There was some article about that a while ago.

So you would go with: Face, Body, Freetime activity 1, Freetime activity 2.

No other people. No other girls. Pets if you have any. Shirtless only if you are doing something that shirtless people do, e. g. you are playing volleyball on the beach. No mirror pics.

Bumble is bad for average guys with above average bodies, because they recently forbid men to use shirtless pics on their profiles. You can barely get away with a picture that shows you on the beach. Fuck Bumble.

This here is valuable information, because it tells you a way to have success even if you consider yourself average:

"I was with a plate and we went on our tinders as a joke and she matched with every guy she swiped right on but said she found 99% of them unattractive even though some were better looking than me."

Type. Every girl has a type. Be her type. If you look boring and average, do something about it.

Finally, if Tinder frustrates you -> get off Tinder. Approach irl. Everybody I speak to tells me they get better quality girls from approaching irl.

TEUTR3S · 2021-03-08T12:47:23+00:00

On these kind of dating sites, pictures are everything. Not only where you look good, but being surrounded by women, doing cool stuff and shit like this is necessary.

2021-03-08T14:15:02+00:00

I'm 5'9
using tinder

lol sorry dude but you would be too short for most average girls on Tinder.
Regardless, I wouldn't use Tinder, it's for fattys and the worst of the local girls.

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Terdmuffin · 2021-03-08T13:56:56+00:00

1) if you match with ugly girls it's only because you swiped right in then in the first place.

2) tinder is a business. Tinder isn't about making sure you match with compatible women, it's about making you think that if you pay money you'll match with more women and beautiful women.

Living_Platform · 2021-03-08T16:59:53+00:00

Idk. I moved to a new state april 2020 (start of covid) and since then I have 400 or so matches? I only swipe on girls I think are genuinely attractive.

I'm 6'5 so that's good. But I'm also skinny, 175 pounds. Like I've actually never been to the gym (I know, I know, but I've been fine getting women with just bodyweight exercises)

Idk what specific tips I could give you but I could DM you my profile. I think in modern day having "cool" "artsy" "interesting" pics of yourself go a long way compared to just a pic of you with friends at a bar or mowing the lawn or something... like get an interesting setting, wear a good outfit, and get some actually cool pictures. Something that grabs attention

For instance you will have more success simply posing with a guitar looking like a Rockstar in a good quality picture than you will actually playing the guitar in some iPhone pic where your wearing a corny checkered button down and jeans. The name if the game on Tinder is looking really good and interesting in a picture, not being talented or ripped, or any other metic.

UnbreakableButts · 2021-03-09T03:07:22+00:00

You're not better than a few of these chicks, you're better than all of them. You underestimate how retarded they are. So stop browsing the most toxic place for a guys confidence and go cold approach, pick up fun hobbies.

IBETITALL420 · 2021-03-09T23:46:11+00:00

Why the fuck are you working out 6 days a week? And you're worried about not getting bigger? Are you doing cardio? are you even EATING at a SURPLUS.

Title	Tinder makes me frustrated
Author	antioch94
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Date	March 8, 2021 8:51 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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