What do ya'll think of this post from TRP? "Is there anything more pathetic than an unmarried woman over 30?"

Needsbirthcontrol · 2013-07-19T15:22:05+00:00

I'd argue that a full-on beta male taking orders from his wife is just as pathetic, but I don't disagree with this post. It's truth.

As Steinbeck said, "There is more beauty in truth, even if it is a dreadful beauty."

hateCaptchas · 2013-07-19T20:30:09+00:00

I look at it and I think some variant of "same shit, different day" or, to be more specific, "Look!! There's a group of men talking amongst themselves about women!!!" yawn

I mean, I don't know about you, but I've never sat and listened to a group of women spouting nonsense.

Look. This is the Internet. The vast majority of stuff out 'here' isn't worth the bandwidth. Here is a very early example of people fooling around with the Internet (back before it was the Web, even): http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~coke/history_long.txt . (Ah, Finger, I've missed you... we had such good times with archie...)

So, what's the takeaway from that thread?

Men like young, hot women. yawn
Vagina's can stretch. just wake me up when it's over
Women hit a 'wall' around the time(ish) that men peak snore
Someone, somewhere, read something upsetting on the Internet and wants other people to care. drool

snort startle Oh, we're done? Make sure you clean up your mess and turn off the lights on your way out.

FleetingWish · 2013-07-19T16:37:44+00:00

Every time I read something like this I think "I hope I don't end up like that". You see, I'm in a relationship with a red pill alpha who will never marry. So, if I continue this course, I will be unmarried by the time I'm 30. And if he decides to drop me after I'm 30, I will end up like these girls. While, I understand the rationality behind not wanting to get married for men, I also understand the rationality behind wanting to get married for women. Whether or not a man stays with you long term is a simple equation comparing 2 things. Whether it's easier to stay with you, or it's easier to find a new girl. Marriage, by making divorce extremely difficult, unfairly weights "easier to stay with you" higher than "easier to find a new girl". It's a smart decision for women to secure her relationship into her un-dateable years, 30+.

sugarcrush · 2013-07-19T11:36:32+00:00

I really wish red pillers would get it through their heads that "more partners=looser vagina" is not true at all. The vagina is a muscle and it is meant for sex. It has no idea when you are having sex with a different partner. Sex 100 times with different partners produces the same effects as sex 100 times with one. Its fine that women with high partner counts aren't attractive, but don't spread lies as the reason behind it!!! It discredits the movement as a whole.

2013-07-19T21:35:04+00:00

Well, essentially he is saying the truth, with a few embellishments (for one, I cannot believe carousel riding leads to a "prolapsed outie" of a vagina.)

margerym · 2013-07-19T16:35:58+00:00

it would be nice if the women who posted these "outrages" would tell us what they think of them, or come back and discuss them or something

i dont understand this mentality, does she think we dont know thats what "red pill men" think? that we're going to go omg omg omg THAT'S what they think??? im a feminist now!!

ButterfliesOnSunday · 2013-07-19T20:17:57+00:00

There was another post on TRP I read yesterday (can't find it now, on my phone) that explained the double standard as to why it's frowned upon for women to have had multiple partners but more acceptable for a man to have had multiple partners. Basically it says that the fact that a woman has been unable to start or maintain a relationship and therefore tries with new partners, shows men that there is something wrong with her. If she was worth committing to, one of the various partners she's had would have done so already. So I agree with the fact that yes an older woman who has had either several partners or a divorce (that is her fault of course, not if she had a good reason to leave) would generally have more baggage and presumed issues than these young girls that haven't experienced nearly as much as the older women have and have yet to make the decisions that can lead them to being single later on. My mentality is to have my shit together before I try having any sort of relationship. You need to be capable of taking care of yourself before you can start a healthy relationship. A relationship needs to be fun on both ends so regardless of your age, if you can have a great time with someone, have intellectual conversations, as well as, silly ones, and keep things stress free and simple, he will want to keep you around. Just keep things simple and stress free. Also, be confident in who you are. If dropping 20 lbs will make you feel confident, do it. If you can be confident while looking however you want to, then do that. But confidence in yourself makes you so much more appealing to everyone. If you don't like you, why should anyone else.

That's just what I think and believe after reading a lot of stuff in TRP. My boyfriend is the definition of alpha and I am completely happy with him. We both imply the same strategies on each other (like not giving boundaries, not showing jealousy to ensure trust). And he knows I am completely capable of taking care of myself so he is dominant over me because he wants to be, not because he has to be. He cooks, I clean because I can't cook to save my life. I take care of flight, hotel, and specifics while he will find literally the coolest stuff to do. He does things better than me sometimes and I'm ok with that. I like having a man by my side that takes care of himself and can take care of me, not a boy I need to worry about.

Sorry for the rant ): first post about TRP and I had a lot of pent up ranting lol

margerym · 2013-07-19T13:46:17+00:00

One of the first things that turned me on to TRP was that it admitted (finally!) that women over 30 hit the wall biologically. That is what the bulk of this post is about. What do I think about it? I think it's a painful truth for women that the feminist fantasy tells us to ignore but an inevitable truth that no manner of shouting down can reverse.

It bothers me to no end that women in their 30s cry to their friends and family about their troubles conceiving. It bothers me because they have been told a lie and pointing out that lie makes you a misogynist. Meanwhile these women are suffering because the fantasy refuses to face reality.

TempestTcup · 2013-07-19T13:51:21+00:00

What's to think about it. It's the distilled reality of what men really think.

cron_nin · 2013-07-19T18:56:22+00:00

This is what I am talking about when I say take what you read with a grain of salt. As an onlooker and a woman who is not "redpill", this is very offensive.

But I have come to realize that a lot of what the redpill is about is a place where certain men can come to rant and let out there frustrations. And of course, the meaner and more controversial it is, the more certain people will gravitate towards it and enjoy it. And will increase popularity. Everything that zioncontroller writes is that way.

I don't take it too seriously. This is just pure distilled anger, resentment and validation for everything that he chooses to do. I have learned that he is the type of character that I personally will get myself involved with on a serious level in real life.

I have gotten used to stuff like this.

Nutz76 · 2013-07-19T19:30:56+00:00

I don't think it's pathetic, but if she wants kids and is relationship minded she done fucked up in life.

considerfly · 2013-07-19T20:59:57+00:00

I love how our 'blue pill' critics cry about how red pill men are a bunch of virgins who will never be in a relationship, and then they point to red pill men talking about what they want in a partner/girlfriend/wife and cry 'misogynist!' It's almost as if there's no consistency to their beliefs, and no logic, just a bunch of feeeeelllings

margerym · 2013-07-19T14:41:42+00:00

Reading this thread about labias and bat wings is interesting. I find it funny that it's so hard to believe that when women have a lot of sex (not necessarily with different partners) bat wings happen. Skin, it stretches, y'all! Of course, some women just have larger labia minoras, but they do stretch over time. Why is that so bad to acknowledge?

Nature is so sexist.

Title	What do ya'll think of this post from TRP? "Is there anything more pathetic than an unmarried woman over 30?"
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Date	July 19, 2013 8:06 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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