I am wondering about how RPW make requests of their partners, because it seems that requests are often seen as tests. So, at what point in a relationship do you feel comfortable making different kinds of requests, anything from accompanying you to a family funeral to a particular restaurant for date night? And how would you do it? This is honestly something I never even thought twice about before reading on this and related subs. When I wanted or needed something like that from my husband, I just asked. It did not occur to me that there were so many layers of complexity in our interactions.