Firstly, please understand the difference between a slut and a whore/prostitute.

A few months back I was in a bar with a friend and he brought 2 girls with him, one of which was the girl in question. Nothing happened that night other than me talking with her for less than 10 minutes, barely getting over the introductions. I remember that night spitting some red pill facts to my friend while these girls were listening and at one point she called me a misogynist.

Other than her looks and age (20) I knew nothing about her. And in terms of looks she's a solid 8.5/10. So, 3 days ago, this girl pops into my newsfeed and I decide to pursue her and set up a date. The conversation on facebook went something like this (translated):

Me: hey, you misogynist (she isn't one, but I wanted to instill some emotions and get a response)

Her: what?! I think you got the wrong person

Me: oh yeah that's right, I'm the mysoginist, you're the feminist

Her: nope, I'm not a feminist either I don't care for these things

Me: well, in that case you're forgiven. I have an idea...

Her: Haha :)) let's hear it

Me: Tomorrow I take you out and steal you from your boyfriend (I knew she didn't have one, but I wanted to make my intentions clear as day)

Her: hahaha I'll see how my schedule is, it's pretty hectic right now (kind of a shit-test. if she wants to see someone she makes room in her schedule.)

Me: awwww, noot good enough. I want another answer, try again :)

Her: Well, leaving aside the boyfriend part, tomorrow I have a video shooting and friday I'm starting work, so thursday is my only window

Me: Ok then, thursday it is, and you have to buy me an icecream because we're moving the date 1 day forward. Give me your number and I'll call you thurday. Cool? cool...

no answer

Here I thought that either I fucked up by being too direct with the icecream thing or she simply wasn't interested in seeing me, even though she mentioned that she has a window thursday. Whatever, I thought to myself, I will not write to her not to seem desperate and drop it.

The next day I decide that I've got nothing to loose and write to her:

Me: Nice magic act...

Her: What do you mean? :))

Me: The act where I ask for your number and you disappear.

Her: Haha, here it is (I think the fact that I didn't push her the day before on the number and just dropped it, made her realize that if she doesn't give me the number now I will not ask for it again)

Some more bullshit conversation follows about her video shooting and at one point she says:

Her: I'm tired of typing, I'd rather tell you these details live

Me: You said you're free on thursday, tell me an hour when to pick you up.

Her: hahaha "you're free on thursday, tell me an hour" so decisive :)))

Me: Yeah, that's how my mother taught me... to be direct

She says she's free at 6 pm and then has to meet a friend (read: if the date is shit, I have a reason to bounce, also I'm setting it up so early so I don't ruin my entire night if the date is crap).

I remember watching a video of RSD Julien where he says that on a date, your presence is the most important thing and the locations and activities are irrelevant. So, I decide to not make anything fancy out of it and go for a cheap and simple approach.

I pick her up (she was 20 minutes late, I waited, chump move but I called her out on it when she arrived), we park and we go by foot to a "fancy" fast food join a friend of mine opened recently. We each get a smoothie and some cake. All on the house because my friend was there -> minor social value. My friend joins our table, which at first I wasn't comfortable with, but he didn't know it's a first date, and things went better than expected. Fun conversations were had.

We leave the place and she asks what should we do next (it's already been about 1 hour and 30 minutes). I ask her if she wasn't supposed to see her friend and she replies that she saw her earlier in the day so she's all mine this evening (bullshit, she was enjoying the date and wanted more). I ask her what she wants to do next (bad move, you never ask, you lead, but I was out of ideas and had nothing planned). She says it's up to me.

We get 2 bottles of coke (each paid for theirs) and we go to a park (like fucking teenagers, I almost lost my frame). We sit on a bench and I'm thinking "If she joined me on a bench in a park and tells me that she enjoys these walks, I should no longer draw this out, we're here on a bench, alone, it's time to escalate".

I tell her:

Me: Remember what I said 2 days ago?

She: What?

Me: That I'll steal you from your boyfriend (I move in and touch her lips with mine but NOT kissing her). But I don't know if I should do it now or later.

She bursts out in laughter, I pull back, look at her, and tell her "Yeah, I think I'm gonna do it now". I kiss her... she's a spectacular kisser.

We talk some more, kiss some more, and now she starts qualifying her self like crazy. How much money she makes, how many books she read, her goals aspirations etc etc etc. Here are the things I learned about her on the date that make her a textbook 'slut':

  • The video shooting was for a music clip which is borderline pornographic (topless, sexual positions etc.). She wasn't afraid to show me pictures from the shooting and didn't care. Maybe also for the fact that I also told her that I'm very sexually open and embrace sexuality, no prude shit.

  • She's a model for well knows agency in the city and does regular fashion shows in high-up clubs and venues. And we all know that it takes more than looks to get there.

  • She's a part-time video hostess on those web cam sites. When I asked her to tell me which site she refused on the premise that she doesn't want me to see her naked just yet.

  • She starts all relationships as fuck-buddies, no strings attached, and see how it goes from there.

  • Has never been in a serious (read: monogamous) relationship

The date ends when my phone starts blowing up from a client I am currently working for and I missed a deadline and have to get it done that night or else he's firing me. I drive her home, more kissing in the car, and drop her off. She wants to leave without the stupid "goodbye kiss" and I tell her "that's how you're leaving... really??!" She replies with "well, if you have work there's nothing more I can do"... I look at her, smirk, and tell her "I was just talking about a kiss, don't jump to conclusions" She's visibly embarrassed, I kiss her and tell her that tomorrow we're going out clubbing with a few friends and she should come. She's ecstatic and says that she'll definitely join us with a friend of hers. Perfect.

Bottom line: If I didn't have to work, I would've definitely gone up to her place and probably fuck her. She's spectacular looking and has male attention through the roof and her sexual value is immense, yet she wants to fuck me. She knows I don't make a lot of money, she probably makes more than me, still doesn't care about that or my shitty dirty car. She's surprisingly smart and very enjoyable company. Much more enjoyable than from an entitled 5 or 6 girl (I've noticed this trend more and more, once you get behind 9-10/10's bitch shield they are very enjoyable).

I'm expecting her to blow me off tonight when I ask her to come out, simply because she wanted something to happen yesterday and I wasn't able to pull the trigger. Either way, I'll post an update tomorrow if it's worth it.

Things learned: Keep your frame regardless of circumstances. Be direct and show your intentions early. Don't be afraid to escalate. Turn conversations sexual as soon as possible. Don't be impressed by her status. Make it seem like you don't give a fuck that your car is filthy or that the date consists of a walk in park. Your presence is more important than locations or activities.