My bluepilled beta best friend invited my plate to hangout with him without me.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-01-26T06:44:29+00:00

Ya homie is looking for the easy path to pussy and figures if she'd ball you then she'd ball him.

fnordsnord · 2018-01-26T12:17:10+00:00

She's a plate. Doesn't matter.

Herdsengineers · 2018-01-26T05:29:44+00:00

1 - tell him not to mess with girls your banging. you'll do him the same courtesy.

2 - i hope you told her you weren't coming over when she texted but instead told her to leave and come to your place. shitty of her to accept his invite to go, you shouldn't go rescue her from the consequences of her own shitty decision. even if she were your LTR, still shouldn't do it. in general, never rescue people from bad decisions, actually. it just emboldens more bad decisions that they then ask you to keep rescuing them from. so don't set the precedent to start with.

BluffButt · 2018-01-26T07:19:07+00:00

Oo I like reading situations like these. It’s like a stress test for peeps trying to swallow pill without water.

First thing I see wrong with this is that she seems more than a plate. And if she is, then she’s probably your fine chinaware; aka potential LTR.

You can go about this multiple ways. One being let her do her thang. Your BP friend is BP for a reason. The chances of them fucking are slim, but who knows. You can soft next her or cut off contact with her for a bit. Women aren’t dumb, she’ll know what she did wrong. If you SMV is higher, she’ll fix it. If not then I recommend you get to reading sidebar. I know it’s literally the response to any of these question on this Reddit but it’s true. All the info you need is there

Another way to go about it is showing dominance in your relationship with your BP friend. Again, he is BP. They respond well to dominant figure, both men and women. Set unsaid boundaries if it matters to you that much. Read 48 Laws of Power, it can be applied in a lot of these kinds of situations.

You mentioned she invited you over because they were bored or whatever. That shows she’s more interested in you, so your SMV May already be higher. Make it higher. Most importantly from this. Get used to the fact that one woman will ever belong to you. You don’t own anyone but yourself.

DiggerClam · 2018-01-26T07:12:28+00:00

I’m not worried at all

Yeah, decent reason to make a post about it.

She's a plate. You don't care about plates.

If your mate knows you're smashing and didn't ask you first, he's not a mate; but even then you should be aiming to improve your SMV so high that she will only have eyes for you anyway.

Why would she go elsewhere if she thinks she's with the best?

Talisman64 · 2018-01-26T12:00:18+00:00

He doesn't respect you You don't have to throw him away Just keep him far from anything serious you are doing..

As for your plate... Keep em spinning.

OrphanedVigilante · 2018-01-26T14:20:37+00:00

I've had a lot of friends that would tend to swim in my wake. They're like Mac and Frank from 'It's Always Sunny' trying to get my scraps after implementing the D.E.N.N.I.S. system.

It would irritate me prior to the red pill, but now I really don't care. I view them as part of the sexual ecosysytem; bottom-feeders feasting from my scraps while in their blue-pilled haze. I just feel sorry for them now.

If she's a plate, it doesn't matter and you can let your friend have your scraps once your finished. If this was a LTR, then you have to be the boss of your life and fire her from the LTR as well as fire him from the friendship.

junior_painkiller · 2018-01-26T04:17:23+00:00

why would you need bp people in your life? cut him out

Anasthaesium · 2018-01-26T10:29:17+00:00

Thirst. You’d do well to cut out the thirsty guys because their intrinsic nature is to bottom feed and to not rise up to be capable members of your circle who pull their own weight

blackedoutfast · 2018-01-26T06:17:25+00:00

she's just a plate. you shouldn't care who she's fucking.

turn her out

RAiderNat88 · 2018-01-26T18:25:20+00:00

"I know the pussy's mines, I'ma fuck a couple more times

And then I'm through with it, there's nothing else to do with it

Pass it to the homie, now you hit it"

-Kurupt

You gotta start listening to some hip hop bruh

moresmarterthanyou · 2018-01-26T07:55:45+00:00

cut both of them out of your life ASAP

NabroleonBonaparte · 2018-01-26T12:52:30+00:00

A lot of hamstering going on...

You call her a plate, yet you’re possessive of her like a gf?

Your friend is BP, yet he sees easy pussy and is about to smash?

You’re supposedly RP, yet BPillers can poach your plates?

Why aren’t you pissed at your plate (read: gf) for hanging out solo with one of your friends?

Why do you have LTR feelings for a girl that hangs solo with guys, especially if they’re all in the same circle?

Say it with me: SHE’S NOT YOURS, IT’S ONLY YOUR TURN

TL;DR: OP is the Beta

BusterVadge · 2018-01-26T13:02:04+00:00

She's just a plate. She can fuck who she wants. You reserve the right to drop a plate for doing shit that causes drama.

You need to talk to your best friend about boundaries, too. Lots of guys in here say that it doesn't matter since she's a plate and they are right, except that it's with your best friend and that's unnecessary drama that has no place in a man's life.

jeff_vii · 2018-01-26T13:08:41+00:00

Everyone pities the weak, Jealousy you have to earn. On that note give yourself a pat on the back and remove him from your friend list. He's not a threat, he's threatened by you

chim_city · 2018-01-26T16:20:23+00:00

I would throw this both in their face. When they are both around, jokingly say, "You guys should Eiffel..." and dude .... This girl is no LTR material ....

Your friend is not respecting your boundaries. If you want to keep him as a friend, you'll have to be a dick and say 'hey wtf' then put distance in between and that's if you want to save the relationship, but you can't trust him ever again anyways.
For the girl I wouldn't set boundaries anymore because either you have failed at this point or you will come off as needy which is unattractive anyways. I would either dread game, or tell her you are going out with girlfriend, you are going to take them to dinner, and give them your time and money.... she has demonstrated to you after all, that she is only a plate

kick6 · 2018-01-26T16:52:56+00:00

She's a plate, why do you care?

ra_god94 · 2018-01-26T17:43:21+00:00

This dude ain’t your best friend

MattyAnon · 2018-01-26T18:08:03+00:00

really sure what to think of him now.

I think you know exactly what to think of him.

superbad4life · 2018-01-26T04:22:19+00:00

what's the problem? your bp friend is hanging out with a girl that you're plating... I feel like the only reason you'd post is if you did have a problem with it.

And if you want to keep your bro (which I recommend), joke about how awful it was hanging out with him and put yourself into a better light. Plates come and go

fatihcoskuny · 2018-01-26T10:19:37+00:00

Get another one.

Title	My bluepilled beta best friend invited my plate to hangout with him without me.
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Upvotes	33
Comments	59
Date	January 26, 2018 4:11 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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