LTR with a girl who wants no sex before marriage?

jay_jay_man · 2017-09-26T18:21:13+00:00

The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

You have to ask yourself, if she is willing to delay sex for years until x event, is she really that sexually attracted to me in the first place? The answer is no, she isn't.

Also, you aren't in a relationship, she is. Relationships for women start the moment men give them a commitment which it seems you have. Relationships for men starts at sex.

NavyBlueCrow · 2017-09-26T18:01:14+00:00

Next, it's not worth it, trust me. Been there. You can probably bang her at one point if she will be horny but there is high chance she will despise you for that

Kommanderdude · 2017-09-26T18:22:38+00:00

2-3 months isn’t an ltr. Don’t marry her without taking her for a test drive. You wouldn’t buy a car without driving it first would you? You wouldn’t buy a house without walking through it first would you? Marriage is even bigger than that.

But what the hell do I know? You’ll just ignore me or make excuses about why this girl is so perfect and how you’re willing to wait. So I’ll just suggest you self terminate.

chachaChad · 2017-09-26T18:42:27+00:00

I wouldn't expect any sex after marriage either.

oldslut · 2017-09-26T18:43:31+00:00

ask her if anal and blowjobs count

hbPUA · 2017-09-26T18:24:45+00:00

There are other girls that will fuck you in three dates or less.

You migth find one this week if you talk with five girls every day until Saturday.

It migth even sound unbelievable. But it's true.

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-26T18:17:57+00:00

Run. Run 4 your life (and for the sake of your dick). Just run.

quicklogaccount · 2017-09-26T18:31:24+00:00

It strikes as an astonishingly bad idea putting the way you did but you failed to approach the most important aspect. What does she offer in return?

A looooong time ago, before I lost my V card, I made out with a very religious chick. She wasn't hot and kissed like shit but she's incredibly beautiful, incredibly self repressed and has very little appeal. Also damn intelligent and could make a decent conversation.
(she's married now. the guy is SO beta she could have actually have triggered the interest of a guy that would put enough effort to get her to cheat on him. but now she's fat so that's not going to happen)
Anyway, pick a not very experienced but not starved guy that wants a hassle free relationship and family and they'd make it a pretty decent match.

Rian_Stone · 2017-09-26T19:46:11+00:00

90 days isn't an LTR, it's a warranty period.

If she asks so much, what does she offer in return?

[deleted] · 2017-09-26T18:12:38+00:00

I personally wouldn't do it. But hey, if you wanna take a gamble go ahead. If she gets tired of you she'll divorce fuck you.

htbf · 2017-09-26T19:54:57+00:00

Marry her, fuck her, divorce her.

TheRecycledMale · 2017-09-26T22:10:06+00:00

First, she's lying to you. Although my college years are decades behind me, I went to a christian college - and by far, the attitude was "no sex until marriage" ... I can tell you there was plenty of sex being had. Possibly a few holdouts, but most of these young co-eds were more than willing to have sex (it was just time and place) - and absolutely no way to tell the "good" girls from the "bad" girls. They all acted like good girls, dressed like good girls, and spoke like good girls - and 90% of them left that christian college non-virgins.

Although, I'm sure, as some point in their post college years, they became "born again virgins" and just hamstered those wild nights away.

[deleted] · 2017-09-26T23:09:38+00:00

OP! Listen: do you want to get married and join MRP? If so, don't eject without more thought. I would red pill her. If she takes it, then you have a decision to make. If she reviles, end it. Don't feel constrained to follow TRP dogma. Read MRP for a while before making a decision. Perhaps she will let you spin plates in order for her to bag a husband if that's what you want.

SirKolbath · 2017-09-26T19:07:32+00:00

AWALT. If she thinks you're hot enough, the Bible is just another book.

If she's making you wait, you're not hot enough. You think she'd make Channing Tatum wait? Next!

shadyindividual · 2017-09-26T19:28:57+00:00

Has she had sex before?

Yes - Then you are a chump.

No - Give yourself a deadline then bail if you can't smash.

TxnyMontana · 2017-09-26T21:33:03+00:00

[deleted] · 2017-09-27T03:11:39+00:00

Pussy is never worth waiting for

Title	LTR with a girl who wants no sex before marriage?
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Date	September 26, 2017 5:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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