I fail with girls and want to kill myself, can you stop suggesting me "improve SMV" meme?

resolutions316 · 2017-05-17T14:38:56+00:00

So, I don't know you, know nothing about you other than what you post here.

And it's clear what you MEAN for us to take away from your posts. Your "stats" - body weight, money, clothes.

But by far the most revealing thing in here is how you respond to everyone else.

Please tell me what to take responsibility for. To take responsibility for the fact that I am working 3 jobs and am wealthier than all the other people at my age? That i'm working out for a decade, that I maxed my style and dress better than 99% of population, that I have 0 inhibition and fear? What to take responsibility for ? That I have read all TRP advice and applied it to my life. Englithen me, oh, wise one.

Nearly all your comments have this tone. You are butthurt, whiney, entitled. You literally think: "I did all this shit, now girls SHOULD like me." You have a massive covert contract with the world, and when things don't go your way, you - literally - whine. Like a baby.

This is what you reveal about yourself. If you think that women - who are more socially adept than men in general - do not pick up on this side of your personality, the entitlement, the weakness....well. They do.

Let me turn this around:

Yes, it sucks you are having trouble getting girls. I've been there! In fact, if I wasn't married, I'd STILL be there, and I'm even having trouble in my marriage! So, yes. It sucks.

But.

You (at least according to your own claims):

are in incredibly good shape. Probably top 5% of all men.
are far surpassing your peers in your career.
know how to dress.
have tons of confidence and little to no social anxiety.
you're even TALL. Nice!

All these things are fucking RAD. I'm sure they didn't come easy. You've achieved a lot in your life.

So.

Why are you so fucking butt hurt by your perceived difficulty with women?

Why are you so fucking obsessed with sticking your tiny ass dick in a warm hole?

Why are you so WEAK that you immediately turn on those who offer help? (If you disagree, by the way, you can do that in a way that does not betray a weak frame. You haven't yet figured that out.)

Yeah man. You have your SMV down, for sure.

YOUR FRAME FUCKING SUCKS. I can see it from a mile away, so can every girl you've ever fucking talked to.

Girls aren't the problem. The problem's in your head. You need so much validation I'm fucking suffocating just reading this.

Fix it. Take feedback. DO. NOT. HAMSTER. THIS. AWAY.

I really wish you the best.

ChainsawRedneck · 2017-05-17T13:50:55+00:00

You sound like a bitch.

EsteraMC · 2017-05-17T13:54:11+00:00

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[deleted] · 2017-05-17T14:31:48+00:00

Autism

Archwinger · 2017-05-17T14:22:12+00:00

At this point, if you're hot, successful, and socially apt, you need to get off the internet.

You are definitely doing something wrong when you interact with girls, and it's putting them off, making you look worse than you are, and costing you lays. But it's beyond what a bunch of guys over the Internet can diagnose.

You need to go out with your real life friends, game girls, and get some critical feedback on whatever it is you're doing that you don't recognize. Your body language might suck, your vocal intonation might suck, you could be talking about stupid shit.

Remember, every girl out there is like your former LTR - able to get a guy quickly and easily, often selecting from multiple options. So you're just one guy among many options for most girls.

refusewool · 2017-05-17T13:49:45+00:00

Get a grip and approach more girls. Refine your game through experience. Quantity.

[deleted] · 2017-05-17T14:44:50+00:00

Game. It's really the only thing you're missing. Luckily for you, you're 90% ahead of everyone else in almost every area.

Go learn some PUA. I guarantee some Mystery Method game is all you need. And probably not even a lot. Because there's only two rules to this.

be attractive (handed)
dont be unattractive (where you are)

banllama · 2017-05-17T15:06:03+00:00

I don't believe you. Record your pickup attempts and post them here. Post the entirety of the text thread with the girl whose number you get. You say FACTS, but really it's just subjective opinions on your part. You need a 3rd party perspective, you're clearly doing something wrong.

BrazilRedPill · 2017-05-17T15:58:09+00:00

Dude. My body is worst than yours. Maybe I have less money than you. I am 38 years old. Yet, I've fucked 4 girls in 3 months and made out with 8 others.

The thing is I am fun. I like people. I truly like to hear and tell funny histories to girls. I am cool. People like to be around me and I like to be around people.

It sounds like your problem is not what you have in the outside, but your personality. My bet is that you are a social retard.

I bet you have no sympathy for people, have an angry face, little friends (those who would be there for you in the middle of the night if you need them), and you are not fun.

Nay2003 · 2017-05-17T13:56:21+00:00

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CouchPotato81 · 2017-05-17T15:06:02+00:00

Well, if you look at TRP stuff, you will notice that SMV is only one part of the whole picture. You need to improve your "mind" too (knowledge, game, mental state, personality, meditation, etc.)

All I read about you is that you improved the way you look (ripped, nice clothing, job, etc.) but didn't changed the way you think. You sound like a technical PUA guy trying to find a magic pill.

I don't know you (so are the girls you approach) and just by the way you responded to people's "critiques" here, I can already tell that I don't like you. You sound like you are the shit, so perfect. In fact you sound just like a superficial HB9-10 who thinks the world owns her since she is so pretty.

The world owns you nothing.

Go read on self improvement, work on your personality.

I recommend Models by Mark Manson.

CouchPotato81 · 2017-05-17T15:38:52+00:00

I kinda realized after reading everything.. He didn't took the pill yet.

2017-05-17T14:41:23+00:00

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blackedoutfast · 2017-05-17T14:43:47+00:00

you must have terrible game bro. are you using kino and escalating with girls? being sexually polarizing so they know you're interested?

do you get IOIs from girls before you approach them? like if you're just bullshiting with your boys in a bar do you see girls looking at you?

RedPharaohRising · 2017-05-17T17:04:05+00:00

I've been reading this thread from the beginning. Comments, responses and all.

I am kind-of where you are, but also moving beyond it. I get the frustration. Where you're having trouble with women, I'm having trouble with lifting. Here's what we can conclude. Either your depiction of yourself is mistaken, or your idea of yourself is flawed.
But if I were suggest a general direction, here's an idea. When someone gets really good at something or really interested, they start to leave the hard and fast tenets of the blueprint and start to experiment with what works for them.
TRP says text only for logistics, ignore boyfriend lines, etc. Assuming you're being honest about all this, try again and try something different. Maybe text a little for banter.
Try being more 'fun' and less as if you're trying to take her on a date.
Just play around with all of the variables, see what works.

About the entitlement and covert contracts, you should know by now (or at least pick it up now) that you are assuming TRP says improving smv and talking to everyone will get you dates for sure. Nothing's certain, it's just that these things have been seen to be useful indicators in most people.
We can't tell you this, and most posters will reflect what I just said above. You're pretty lucky. A lot of good responses have been given and you've responded with snark, insults and sarcasm. You will not be given a second chance if you keep going this way.
TRP is not your daddy. Don't expect to keep running back and screaming at us for literally writing your roadmap. That's your job, not ours. We cannot possibly tell you what will work for you with 100% certainty, only you can figure that out, possibly from our suggestions or from your own experiences. This should be obvious. Curb your tone, son.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-17T17:06:28+00:00

To be fair, you definitely won't look yoked in clothes. You're too lean you look small.

If it's not your SMV it has to be your game. Post screenshots of a texting thread you got. Also, if you're wearing suits all day it's pretty try hard. Expensive clothes don't automatically give you style, your have to know HOW to wear clothes, not what clothes TO wear. Its more about u than the clothes.

Frigzy · 2017-05-17T17:07:34+00:00

The one common denominator here is that you can't seem to refrain from judging.

Try to reserve your judgement unless specifically asked for and focus on getting the message.

Girls love that shit.

epicness · 2017-05-17T18:39:25+00:00

My guess is in the way you interact. Based on how you interact here, you might be coming off as needy. Additionally, what I hear is you're improving all alpha traits. Women are pluralistic in their sexual strategy. They have both short term and long term schedules of mating. In the short term they look for alpha traits for good genes. In the long term they look for provisioning traits, often associated with betas. Ideally, they would want both. Which means, a pure alpha isn't the highest their hypergamy is seeking. Again, a 100% alpha and 0% beta isn't the ideal. In other words, what you think is a 10 in SMV isn't really a 10 for women. Why TRP promotes alpha is because most people are incredibly beta already. Beta qualities are pro-social qualities. You might just be incredibly unpleasant to be around and you don't know it. You don't need to build much of it if you're just trying to get laid, but that would be the next step in SMV for you. Building a bit more alpha wouldn't give you nearly the size of response that building a bit more beta would do for you at this point.

And yes, I don't text like a beta bitch, just use text for logistics.

If your sticking point is getting a meet up, this right here is your problem. I've gotten dates consistently with 3 texts after meeting a girl for the first time. Logistics was the third text, never my entire game in texting. The process for me is: Trigger some emotion, usually through humor, build some mediocre connection, logistics. You probably would never think of building connection because you would think that isn't alpha. And really, I don't build much of it, but what I do improves my success rate.

BrazilRedPill · 2017-05-17T19:28:18+00:00

Okay, here is the truth: YOU ARE UGLY AS FUCK.

You have a genetic problem where your face is undeveloped; you have a small, disproportional jaw; women think you are a kid; you can't grow a beard.

Source: OP post history.

OP, how do you want to have serious, FACTUAL background when you hide the truth? You know this shit.

Why you don't get girls? Because you are ugly as fuck, that's why.

Your question should be: "My face is bizarre as shit, but my body is solid. I have money. What else should I do in order to get girls?"

But no, you say you are the perfect specimen and yet no girl wants you. You know this is a lie.

Nobody wants you because you are ugly. Own this shit, accept it.

Title	I fail with girls and want to kill myself, can you stop suggesting me "improve SMV" meme?
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Date	May 17, 2017 1:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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