I married [I could stop here] a feminist that is rapidly approaching the wall. She has a masters degree (I have a bachelors. I value education so I thought it was a plus but it could be why she brings a condescending tone so often). We've been married a year and half, I'm living in a dead bedroom. She has not given me a bj since we got married (and only a few times before but I was too deluded to see the signs). I admit I am blue pill (this is probably obvious & I could have left out) and I am working on red pill. I'm frustrated and I don't know what to do. I am working on myself by working out. I am visiting this sub as often as I can. I've been contemplating cheating but I feel like that is a bad idea. I'm entertaining the idea of divorce but I don't want to "give up" and I have some belief that, granted, isn't based on any evidence at the moment, that I can tame this wild horse and turn her into a submissive cock craving whore in the house that I can bring out as a respectable woman.

tl:dr: I feel trapped in a sexless marriage that I entered too soon. Is nexting her the only option?